Do you like to watch your significant other have sex or fool around with another person?

Contributor: rmiles124 rmiles124
After seeing it many times on porn and trying myself, I've recently discovered that it turns me on to watch my boyfriend go down on other girls and have sex with them. I never thought I would be ok with this, and all my other friends say they would never let their man do that. I just want to know if I'm weird or there are others that feel this way. Thanks for your responses!
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
No Way! That's my man/girl!
49  (72%)
I would think about it / Have thought about it.
13  (19%)
I love to share!
3  (4%)
Have tried it and don't like it.
2  (3%)
Only fooling around, not full on sex.
1  (1%)
Total votes: 68
Poll is closed
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Contributor: MidnightStorm MidnightStorm
Generally not for me--I'd be interesting in seeing him fool around with another guy, though. Not often, just once or twice!
11/30/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
It's a fantasy thing - but way too dangerous to contemplate doing for real.
12/01/2012
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
no way.. i'd kick him to the curb. i'd be so offended if he wanted to be with someone else.
12/01/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by rmiles124
After seeing it many times on porn and trying myself, I've recently discovered that it turns me on to watch my boyfriend go down on other girls and have sex with them. I never thought I would be ok with this, and all my other friends say they ... more
Um... no! We're monogamous. Happily!
12/01/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
We are totally monogamous and exclusive to each other.

BUT--we can watch and show off all we want, on cam or with others in the room.
12/01/2012
Contributor: TattooMan TattooMan
no shes mine
12/01/2012
Contributor: Ivanna Ivanna
no way!
12/01/2012
Contributor: mamaseatspoop mamaseatspoop
no way, shes mine!
12/01/2012
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
I'm too much of a jealous person to let my girlfriend mess around with others. I just couldn't do it.
12/01/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
No way, not even flirting!
12/01/2012
Contributor: Sunny Meadows Sunny Meadows
No way.
12/01/2012
Contributor: Septimus Septimus
The thought of it turns me on, but in reality I'm probably much too jealous to even try that!
12/01/2012
Contributor: amazon amazon
Not at all!
12/01/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
I did this with one ex and discussed it with a few others. I would be ok with it and enjoyed it when we did it. Not sure I would want my current partner to do it and I'm certain she has no interest in other males and def not females.
12/01/2012
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
The thought brings up too much darkness in me. I've worked all this time convincing myself that I'm worthy of actually having someone. Having to share their attention will make me automatically bail out of the relationship and let them go on with their life.

Fortunately, the boyfriend is also one-on-one. He turned down several offers to be the Other Man through the years because he says "I don't like sharing."
12/01/2012
Contributor: kev kev
No way, only one at a time!
12/01/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
I don't think I'd like it.
12/01/2012
Contributor: tami tami
Quote:
Originally posted by rmiles124
After seeing it many times on porn and trying myself, I've recently discovered that it turns me on to watch my boyfriend go down on other girls and have sex with them. I never thought I would be ok with this, and all my other friends say they ... more
sorry but whats mine is mine and that is that no ifs ands or butts I will not share or be shared...It is one on one or none on none
12/01/2012
Contributor: lovebites lovebites
no way!!
12/01/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
No way.
12/01/2012
Contributor: Bullfroggy and Rose Bullfroggy and Rose
no, i'm way too jealous
12/01/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
No way.
12/01/2012
Contributor: wicked weasel wicked weasel
Definitely No-o-o.
12/02/2012
Contributor: lainebug lainebug
Quote:
Originally posted by rmiles124
After seeing it many times on porn and trying myself, I've recently discovered that it turns me on to watch my boyfriend go down on other girls and have sex with them. I never thought I would be ok with this, and all my other friends say they ... more
we don't
12/03/2012
Contributor: EmilyIsSexy EmilyIsSexy
I don't think I would be comfortable with that
12/03/2012
Contributor: steph0119 steph0119
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
It's a fantasy thing - but way too dangerous to contemplate doing for real.
My feelings exactly. Its fun to toy with the idea in the bedroom, but if it actually happened, it would break my heart.
12/11/2012
Contributor: tony tony
If it's a threesome yes, but if I'm not included no.
12/11/2012
Contributor: Rawr4483 Rawr4483
My boyfriends and I have talked about it before...the opportunity has yet to arrive yet!
12/12/2012
Contributor: Raymaker Raymaker
I've thought about it before in the past. If I was there, (participating or watching) I'd be very much cool with it. Not so much if I wasn't present.
12/12/2012