Which age did you first begin to think about BDSM related fantasies and get your first thoughts on the subject

Contributor: Vanille Vanille
Teens, but didn't get into it heavily until my twenties.
09/25/2012
Contributor: ellieprobable ellieprobable
Why did you skip 18-19?
09/25/2012
Contributor: smlove smlove
probably when I was obsessed with Labyrinth and thought Sarah was an idiot for refusing Jareth. So he wanted to control her? I didn't see a problem with that, lol.
09/26/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
Around 30 when I was reawakened sexually.
09/26/2012
Contributor: pixylove101 pixylove101
I was young. I sed to tie myself up
09/26/2012
Contributor: johnnylove johnnylove
My first ever exposure to anything BDSM related was when I was about fourteen. I was watching a video about politics when suddenly a drawing of George W. Bush popped up, in which he was flogging John Kerry in a gag. Honestly, it confused the hell out of me and I stayed off the internet for a month because I was so shocked. It's always a funny story to tell.
10/02/2012
Contributor: butts butts
I've known I was into guys crossdressing, light bondage and piercings since I started discovering sexuality. Thanks to the internet, it was all readily available for my viewing
10/02/2012
Contributor: Katzer Katzer
Around 11-13 I started to fantasy about dominating and tying a man.
10/04/2012
Contributor: SailorJulyxo SailorJulyxo
I've been interested in sex, since... forever. I was always a curious child, looking up "naughty words" in the dictionary, HAHA. Than there was Wikipedia, with so much more... ? I first heard about BDSM in a newspaper article (oh course, this article wasn't a good one *eye roll* but I became curious when I was 13.) I started researching more. I also met my girl when I was 13, and we both knew what we were into but didn't do anything until I turned 18.

When I turned 18, we were already engaged since I was 16, so I flew here (Utah - we were long distance), had our first kink night that night, moved in that night and less than a month later we married and I collared her on our honeymoon!
10/05/2012
Contributor: Living Doll Living Doll
I've had "damsel in distress" type fantasies since I was quite young. They weren't of a sexual nature until I was in my early teens.
10/14/2012
Contributor: ID42 ID42
I have always had an interest in BDSM and I had thoughts when I was very young, but never knew anything about what it was called. I grew up in a very cold and uptight household. I didn't start playing that way until my late teens and after having a few decent boyfriend experiences. One of my exes was the first to ever tie me up or whip/spank me. He wasn't as into it as I was, but he liked to experiment and was more than willing to help me satisfy what I needed from him in that respect. He's now married to one of my best friends and I think they are a bit kinky now.
10/14/2012
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by pleasurehunter
As I kid I had no idea what BDSM was but I about 10 through 15 I had fantasies of licking the boots of women in leather with whips and floggers. I had seen bits and pieces of BDSM in film and tv, I think my mind was interested and I had these ... more
Early 20s.
10/18/2012
Contributor: Aishiteru Aishiteru
I was fairly young, but it wasn't until later that I learned what bdsm is.
10/20/2012
Contributor: Boyfriend Boyfriend
early 20s
10/22/2012
Contributor: KiraCat KiraCat
It all started when I hit puberty (which was around 13 or 14) and I started looking at chains in a more sexual way. It kinda snowballed from there. However I had no idea what it was called until I was nearly 17 that I knew what it was called.
10/22/2012
Contributor: DirtyAngel7 DirtyAngel7
Quote:
Originally posted by pleasurehunter
As I kid I had no idea what BDSM was but I about 10 through 15 I had fantasies of licking the boots of women in leather with whips and floggers. I had seen bits and pieces of BDSM in film and tv, I think my mind was interested and I had these ... more
I was probably 16 or 17 when the fantasies started. So glad too, being a good little girl was the wrong kind of torture for me!
10/23/2012
Contributor: Rrrrrrrrrrr Rrrrrrrrrrr
Around 14 or so. I was into the gothy scene, and all the girls in corsets and collars started to strike a chord.
10/23/2012
Contributor: Xarien Xarien
I was about 14 at the time and was fortunate enough to have a girlfriend that was much more kinky and adventurous than I was. She opened me up to quite a few different things.
10/23/2012
Contributor: MidnightStorm MidnightStorm
I was pretty young with mine... I'm glad to hear that I'm not the only one, honestly. When I was younger I used to pretend I was chained up by some evil villain who would whip/tease me mercilessly. I lay spread-eagled on my bed pretty frequently thinking about that even though I didn't even REALLY know what sex was!
10/23/2012
Contributor: mastersonv mastersonv
I was about 20 when I started getting into it
10/23/2012
Contributor: CaitieLynn CaitieLynn
Not gonna lie, I got into it rather early without knowing what to call it and it has led to some great times. I am so glad that my current b/f is into it.
10/23/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I was about 19 or so when I started dabbling in it.
10/23/2012
Contributor: Rosen Rot Rosen Rot
About 15-ish.
About the same time I saw my first 'fetish goth'.
10/23/2012
Contributor: Nyx (Under the Covers) Nyx (Under the Covers)
Many of my early fantasies had strong BDSM themes... I just didn't realize it until my twenties when I started figuring out that my distaste for most heterosexual interactions came from my seeing the Male-as-Dominant-Femal e-as-Submissive dynamic as a complete turn-off. Pretty much all of my fantasies involving men had the men in submissive or vulnerable states...

Thinking back on some of the skills I picked up growing up (tying knots via sailing classes, use of scalpels and viewing blood under a microscope via an interest in biology, how to safely use knives via survival training), I wonder if I was unconsciously preparing for it?
11/04/2012
Contributor: Real or memorex Real or memorex
Quote:
Originally posted by pleasurehunter
As I kid I had no idea what BDSM was but I about 10 through 15 I had fantasies of licking the boots of women in leather with whips and floggers. I had seen bits and pieces of BDSM in film and tv, I think my mind was interested and I had these ... more
I was tying myself up in my closet when I was all of five. My parents were somewhat concerned.
11/05/2012
Contributor: bottled-diva bottled-diva
Most of my childhood fantasies were of kidnap. This maybe because I grew up in a very religious and sexually repressed environment, but submissive fantasies remain a favorite.
11/05/2012
Contributor: tunacan75 tunacan75
Really young, first realizing I was getting more enjoyment out of watching tied up damsels in distress in cartoons and movies than your average person!
11/07/2012
Contributor: Babylove09 Babylove09
ever since i was 16 I've always dreamt of being dominated.
11/07/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
Around 14, I think.
11/07/2012
Contributor: tunacan75 tunacan75
Right at puberty
12/31/2012