Getting my husband to try bdsm?

Contributor: froggygal91 froggygal91
how can I talk to my husband about trying bdsm?
12/04/2012
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Contributor: Eugler Eugler
I think it's easier to suggest bdsm to a man if you are a woman than vice-versa.

What do you want to do? being active or passive?

Being active is easy. Use a silk scarf and tie his hands and look how reacts.

Being passive maybe too. Keep a silk scarf handy and when it comes to sex give him the scarf.
12/05/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
Sit him down in a non sexual situation and tell him what you're interested in. Start light, don't start with more extreme things. Keep communicating on what you'd like and have him communicate back what he might like. Some people like to find things online or in porn that they like and then show them to the partner and say "hey, I'd like to try something like this."
12/05/2012