Hello! This is my first post and I'm a little nervous asking this, but I have a question about collars.
In my mind, wearing a collar symbolizes that I'm like an animal, a dog, and deserve to be treated as such. I don't like this. I'm not at all into the humiliation or degradation aspect of BDSM play. However, today someone told me that he views collars as a teaching tool, and a way to remind a submissive who's in charge, NOT as a means to humiliate.
So I'm curious, what does wearing a collar mean or symbolize to you? (I'm not referring to "being collared", I realize that's a completely different matter! I'm referring to play collars.) Does it always have to include the humiliation/animal aspect? I'd love to hear if it has purposes beyond this.
In my mind, wearing a collar symbolizes that I'm like an animal, a dog, and deserve to be treated as such. I don't like this. I'm not at all into the humiliation or degradation aspect of BDSM play. However, today someone told me that he views collars as a teaching tool, and a way to remind a submissive who's in charge, NOT as a means to humiliate.
So I'm curious, what does wearing a collar mean or symbolize to you? (I'm not referring to "being collared", I realize that's a completely different matter! I'm referring to play collars.) Does it always have to include the humiliation/animal aspect? I'd love to hear if it has purposes beyond this.