Do you date differently?

Do you date differently if you define yourself as kinky. Do you do anything special to go out of your way to find someone with similar sexual interests. I am slightly open about my sexuality. I have mentioned some of my likes around friends, but lucked out and the first girl I was really intimate with also really liked BDSM. We are both on the submissive side and switch, but I still feel very sexually satisfied. I was just wondering if others have found it hard/easy to find someone kinky to date/marry