Do you date differently if you define yourself as kinky. Do you do anything special to go out of your way to find someone with similar sexual interests. I am slightly open about my sexuality. I have mentioned some of my likes around friends, but lucked out and the first girl I was really intimate with also really liked BDSM. We are both on the submissive side and switch, but I still feel very sexually satisfied. I was just wondering if others have found it hard/easy to find someone kinky to date/marry