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Do you get more or less kinky when you're stressed?

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Contributor: ghalik ghalik
I do... *cough*finals*cough*

I figure it's just a release method my body is craving. Or am I just weird?
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I get more kinky when stressed
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I get less kinky when stressed
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Just cuddles!
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Stay away!
Dusk , xMila
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Nothing changes
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Other
hall5885
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Total votes: 53 (46 voters)
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Contributor: LusciousLollypop LusciousLollypop
I get WAY more kinky when I am stressed. It is like my body is "craving it" as well. You are not weird. It happens to me too. When I am pissed off or stressed out, I NEED the kink. I need to do it and feel it.. like nothing else matters in the world. It is a great stress reliever. You are not weird. xoxo
05/11/2012
Contributor: reinkaos reinkaos
I said less kinky but it depends on the type of stress, anger more or less is what causes more kink in the bed
05/11/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
There are times when I'm dealing with stress when I just kind of sit up suddenly and say "oh my gawd, I *really* need my back to be flogged." But in general I think (depending on what your kinks are, of course... I'd say I'm more inclined toward impact play when I'm stressed, but not necessarily more inclined toward some other types of play) craving endorphins is a pretty natural response to stress!
05/11/2012
Contributor: NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
Quote:
Originally posted by ghalik
I do... *cough*finals*cough*

I figure it's just a release method my body is craving. Or am I just weird?
I'm a submissive, when things get really crazy in life, I want things to be a greater release sexually. It's difficult to say if I'm more or less kinky, I just want things a bit heavier.
05/11/2012
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
Definitely more. When Master is stressed out, more often than not she'll be wanting to wail on my ass a bit heavier, tis all good with me.
05/11/2012
Contributor: M.O.'s Girl M.O.'s Girl
I voted for more. The craving for pain definitely increases when I am feeling stressed.
05/11/2012
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
I haven't noticed a relationship, maybe I should pay more attention to it to see if I notie something.
05/11/2012
Contributor: AnnMorette AnnMorette
I tend to crave harder play when I am stressed as it helps release some tension and refocus my thoughts.
05/11/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
More, since it's a nice release
05/12/2012
Contributor: Mwar Mwar
I just want hugs. Sex is the last thing on my mind.
05/12/2012
Contributor: Do emu Do emu
Quote:
Originally posted by ghalik
I do... *cough*finals*cough*

I figure it's just a release method my body is craving. Or am I just weird?
Personally when I'm stressed I just want something easy. Might be boring but I get exhausted.
05/12/2012
Contributor: Greenleaf Greenleaf
Less kinky, and less interested in partner activity. If I'm stressed out I just want my hitachi and some sleep.
05/12/2012
Contributor: MidnightStorm MidnightStorm
I completely agree! I get incredible horny and kinky when stressed--finals is always the worst, since I'm in a long distance relationship.
05/13/2012
Contributor: KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
I definitely notice I get a bit more kinky when I'm stressed out about something, stress also has a tendency to make me a touch more masochistic actually. So long as you still play safe and respect safewords it's all fun though. =^.^=
05/13/2012
Contributor: cheesewizz cheesewizz
Quote:
Originally posted by ghalik
I do... *cough*finals*cough*

I figure it's just a release method my body is craving. Or am I just weird?
stress makes me angry, making me want to hurt him more
05/14/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by ghalik
I do... *cough*finals*cough*

I figure it's just a release method my body is craving. Or am I just weird?
Probably less kinky.
05/14/2012
Contributor: 31 Flavors 31 Flavors
The more stress, the less kink.
05/14/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by ghalik
I do... *cough*finals*cough*

I figure it's just a release method my body is craving. Or am I just weird?
Weirdly when I'm stressed I get way less kinky. But when I'm bored i get more kinky
06/04/2012
Contributor: brooketacular brooketacular
High stress kills my sex drive.
06/04/2012
Contributor: LoveBug721 LoveBug721
Quote:
Originally posted by ghalik
I do... *cough*finals*cough*

I figure it's just a release method my body is craving. Or am I just weird?
less
06/04/2012
Contributor: Heatherbipoly Heatherbipoly
Idk the more stressed out the kinker i am.....
06/08/2012
Contributor: thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
I definitely get more kinky when I'm stressed.
06/25/2012
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
My sex drive disappears completely when I'm stressed and since my partner can't disassociate BDSM from sex, my kink drive disappears now too since they have to go hand in hand.
06/25/2012
Contributor: Boyqueen Boyqueen
I think it depends on what sort of stress it is, but I'd say more.
07/05/2012
Contributor: xMila xMila
I get less kinky when I'm stressed and I just want to be left alone.
07/08/2012
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
When I'm stressed, I usually don't want to be too elaborate and just want to keep it simple.
07/08/2012
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
When I'm stressed, I turn into a big cuddleslut.
07/08/2012