Is fire play really a BDSM thing? And would you ever try it?
Fire play
03/14/2011
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Yes, fireplay is a very real element of some people's BDSM play.
For those who've never heard the term, it refers to a kind of edge play involving the use of fire in play which often involves lighting fires on the skin of the submissive/bottom. There are a few different techniques that can be used, like cupping, or bouncing.
I would consider it, but I'm not yet in a place where I would be comfortable with it.
It should NEVER, EVER, EVER be attempted by anyone but an experienced Top. Engaging in fireplay means you are setting a human being on fire. It is NOT a joke, it is not a game. It is serious shit.
For those who've never heard the term, it refers to a kind of edge play involving the use of fire in play which often involves lighting fires on the skin of the submissive/bottom. There are a few different techniques that can be used, like cupping, or bouncing.
I would consider it, but I'm not yet in a place where I would be comfortable with it.
It should NEVER, EVER, EVER be attempted by anyone but an experienced Top. Engaging in fireplay means you are setting a human being on fire. It is NOT a joke, it is not a game. It is serious shit.
03/14/2011
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sounds crazy i don't think i really have heard of it
Originally posted by
DeliciousSurprise
Yes, fireplay is a very real element of some people's BDSM play.
For those who've never heard the term, it refers to a kind of edge play involving the use of fire in play which often involves lighting fires on the skin of the ... more
For those who've never heard the term, it refers to a kind of edge play involving the use of fire in play which often involves lighting fires on the skin of the ... more
Yes, fireplay is a very real element of some people's BDSM play.
For those who've never heard the term, it refers to a kind of edge play involving the use of fire in play which often involves lighting fires on the skin of the submissive/bottom. There are a few different techniques that can be used, like cupping, or bouncing.
I would consider it, but I'm not yet in a place where I would be comfortable with it.
It should NEVER, EVER, EVER be attempted by anyone but an experienced Top. Engaging in fireplay means you are setting a human being on fire. It is NOT a joke, it is not a game. It is serious shit. less
For those who've never heard the term, it refers to a kind of edge play involving the use of fire in play which often involves lighting fires on the skin of the submissive/bottom. There are a few different techniques that can be used, like cupping, or bouncing.
I would consider it, but I'm not yet in a place where I would be comfortable with it.
It should NEVER, EVER, EVER be attempted by anyone but an experienced Top. Engaging in fireplay means you are setting a human being on fire. It is NOT a joke, it is not a game. It is serious shit. less
03/14/2011
I regularly set people on fire at play parties. I adore fire play.
03/15/2011
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Sounds intense.
Originally posted by
DeliciousSurprise
Yes, fireplay is a very real element of some people's BDSM play.
For those who've never heard the term, it refers to a kind of edge play involving the use of fire in play which often involves lighting fires on the skin of the ... more
For those who've never heard the term, it refers to a kind of edge play involving the use of fire in play which often involves lighting fires on the skin of the ... more
Yes, fireplay is a very real element of some people's BDSM play.
For those who've never heard the term, it refers to a kind of edge play involving the use of fire in play which often involves lighting fires on the skin of the submissive/bottom. There are a few different techniques that can be used, like cupping, or bouncing.
I would consider it, but I'm not yet in a place where I would be comfortable with it.
It should NEVER, EVER, EVER be attempted by anyone but an experienced Top. Engaging in fireplay means you are setting a human being on fire. It is NOT a joke, it is not a game. It is serious shit. less
For those who've never heard the term, it refers to a kind of edge play involving the use of fire in play which often involves lighting fires on the skin of the submissive/bottom. There are a few different techniques that can be used, like cupping, or bouncing.
I would consider it, but I'm not yet in a place where I would be comfortable with it.
It should NEVER, EVER, EVER be attempted by anyone but an experienced Top. Engaging in fireplay means you are setting a human being on fire. It is NOT a joke, it is not a game. It is serious shit. less
03/20/2011
That sounds insane. not sure i could do that
04/02/2011
I have a ridiculous fear of fire. This would be past my limits. I could never trust anyone that much.
04/03/2011
Yes, fire play is a part of BDSM. My girlfriend is interested in fire play...we haven't tried it, however, we have tried wax play. =)
04/03/2011
Yes, yes, yes, yes, and yes! (I know, there was only two questions--was my point. ;P) I have had one fairly mild experience with fireplay, and it was rather thrilling, and I would definitely like to explore it further!
04/28/2011
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As you know yes it is a real think and many people do engage in it. To add my two cents the most interesting way I have seen it done is with a Violet Wand and alcohol.
Originally posted by
tammyandy69
Is fire play really a BDSM thing? And would you ever try it?
05/14/2011
I would need to really trust the top and know they had experience with this. Fire play is something I may dabble it, but it would never be a weekly element of my BDSM play.
05/17/2011
I have never heard of fire play
05/17/2011
Fire play is awesome! I was introduced to it a few months back by an awesome Dom, and adore it. He also did fire cupping on my back, which you can see here (pic is not safe for work due to bare back/butt). I am a sensation slut, so cupping makes me really happy. It's an intense feeling without slipping over into pain. -purrs-
05/17/2011
Fire play is something that I think would be interesting to try if I really trusted the top.
05/18/2011
I like pain, but that sounds too painful!
05/18/2011
I can see the news paper headlines...
06/01/2011
Not for me
06/01/2011
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Why? Fire play is safe and taught widely in the BDSM community. There are proper ways to do fire play and it isn't what you're probably thinking. Fire play involves using a lighter (or candle), isopropyl alcohol (so that it doesn't burn too hot), and the flame is extinguished by the hand as soon as it makes contact with the skin. Yes, it's dangerous, but everything is dangerous until you learn how to properly do it. People have been safely doing fire play for years.
Originally posted by
Scott Ghost
I can see the news paper headlines...
06/01/2011
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It's actually not too painful. It's a wonderful sensation (like a hot stone massage) and it's seriously intoxicating
Originally posted by
CAKES
I like pain, but that sounds too painful!
06/01/2011
to much hair
06/01/2011
If you're doing fireplay correctly, the person isn't burning at all. Just the alcohol (or other accelerant). The activity isn't dangerous (done right) but like many BDSM activities the tools themselves are. Fire is dangerous. It should be treated respectfully and skillfully. I love fireplay.
06/22/2011
Sounds dangerous, but intriguing...
11/29/2011
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that sounds awful..
Originally posted by
tammyandy69
Is fire play really a BDSM thing? And would you ever try it?
02/28/2013
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I set people on fire all the time. I love it!
Originally posted by
tammyandy69
Is fire play really a BDSM thing? And would you ever try it?
02/28/2013
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I have a friend who used to "set his hand on fire"... it was absolutely terrifying to watch, but he never got burnt.
Originally posted by
G.L. Morrison
If you're doing fireplay correctly, the person isn't burning at all. Just the alcohol (or other accelerant). The activity isn't dangerous (done right) but like many BDSM activities the tools themselves are. Fire is dangerous. It should be
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If you're doing fireplay correctly, the person isn't burning at all. Just the alcohol (or other accelerant). The activity isn't dangerous (done right) but like many BDSM activities the tools themselves are. Fire is dangerous. It should be treated respectfully and skillfully. I love fireplay.
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As for fireplay in BDSM... no, it's nothing I ever want to try... but to each their own.
02/28/2013
It is something that really intrigues me, but we have never tried it.
03/03/2013
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If you just like to swing fire poi or fire fans, that's not necessarily kinky. if you like fire put against your body in some fashion, yeah, that's kinky.
Originally posted by
tammyandy69
Is fire play really a BDSM thing? And would you ever try it?
I would try a little bit of it, but I really am a marshmallow when it comes to pain.
03/04/2013
Yes, and yes. He loves to do fire play on me, and it's quite pleasurable.
03/05/2013
Personally it's not my thing, fire just seems like you have less control over things
03/10/2013
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