Im very much turned on by BDSM things ie ropes gags whips ect. and want to get more into the life style, and I want to show my husband the other side and have him explore this with me but hes nervous to and I was wondering if anyone has any tips to or ways to get into just the thought of it, Please understand Im not by any means what so ever looking to force him but trying to calm his nerves about it not force him into it. thanks!!!