My wife is a gun safety nazi like you, so it would never happen. Maybe if it was a really cheesy plastic one like kids' holloween costumes come with...

Water gun, cheap plastic kid's one - maybe. Real one? Nope.

Real guns are only pointed at things you are willing to destroy. It's always loaded, even if you've just checked and the action is open. It's even loaded when it's halfway disassembled. That's the rule according to Scouts and the NRA.

If you haven't guessed this means no. I wouldn't play with knives either.

There are enough ways to get hurt in this world without taking unnecessary risks.

I love guns, I will not lie, though I would like to echo Scott's sentiments that there is no such thing as an unloaded gun. I find the cold steel incredibly sexy and powerful, which is probably why I have a thing for Nazis and cops. I have not ever used guns in a sexual situation, but I would love to with a responsible partner who knows his way around a handgun, not someone who just picked up a Ruger at a gun show on a whim.

I am sure it can be done safely with much, MUCH careful preparation and planning, in a safe environment with endless trust.

Rule of thumb - you don't point a gun at anything you don't intend to kill and you don't kill anything you don't intent to eat

Despite not owning any, I'm a gun lover for sure. But from when I was a Boy Scout I was taught a deep respect for them. SexyTabby's got the right idea. You don't point a gun at anything you don't intend to kill. You always treat a gun as if it was loaded because even some very experienced people have killed themselves with guns by accident.

I would say if you want your gun fix then go find yourself a good quality metal body Airsoft gun. You can find ones that look exactly like the real thing (except for having an orange tip) but are nowhere near as dangerous. Removing the power supply or air canister of an airsoft gun completely disables it, unlike removing the magazine from a real gun.

A gun should only be pointed at something you actually intend to shoot. Period. They are not toys.

People do that? Scary. No, I definitely wouldn't play with anything that could kill me, ever.

Never.

Never. Ever.

A real gun would not fly with me.

Its true, its not safe. But, if it doesn't have bullets in it how can it harm? Also gun play can mean many things. The gun even being in the room could be considered gun play. It doesn't have to be pushed to the temple or put in someones mouth to be "in play." Its risk aware, and if it isn't for you, then let it be.

I get excited from shooting a gun, but not sexually excited. More of an adrenaline high.

I think it is incredibly irresponsible. With gun ownership comes a great deal of responsibility and if you cannot be responsible when it comes to proper handling, then you do not need to own it.

I will admit, I have fantasized about having a gun to my head and forced into submission, but would never actually be okay with it. Far too dangerous. A nice looking and real-feeling replica would be plenty of excitement for me.

Definitely a turn on, but I think if a round ever got chambered it would cross the line.

A resin molded replica or a toy, but I don't think a real gun would fly for playtime.

Absolutely not.

No way. Every gun ever is always loaded all of the time. When we were kids, even pointing our cap guns at each other was worth a spanking. My cousin didn't think his gun was loaded when he was cleaning it, and it shot off the lock on the front door. And he was not a gun noob.

Get a really good replica toy if that's what you're into, but no need to make things harder for the rest of us gun lovers by being foolish with a deadly weapon.

I don't allow guns in my house, so I would never do this type of play. I have done knife play before (not any cutting or drawing blood though) and it was okay, but it didn't really get me excited.

I guess I don't have a problem with people using a toy gun for this sort of play, it's just not ever going to be something I am into.

I have owned and used guns for a long time now. I owned a gun as soon as it was legal for me to age wise. I am a safety nut myself all guns are to be considered loaded always. As said above only point a real gun at something you want to kill. I'm not into gun play myself I love shooting them but would never aim one at a person on purpose unless I was planning on shooting them like an intruder. As for the suggestions of replica or toy guns for one almost all of those look fake and the person might notice and then the danger element would be gone. I didn't see it mentioned but guns can be set up or bought that will only fire blanks that way its not possible a real bullet could ever be loaded this is what a lot of movie use. The problem with blanks is at very close range they can still be lethal people have been killed by them usually in freak accidents but still dead is dead. One option people might want to consider is deactivating the gun where it can never shoot. If the firing pin is removed from a gun it can not discharge a round yet its still a real gun it wouldn't matter if its loaded it couldn't go off. Another step might be plugging the receiver on a semi-automatic and plugging the chambers on a revolver. By plugging I mean having a piece of steel welded where the bullets go so it would never be possible to load. I would ruin the gun for use as a gun but it would still look and function like one except it couldn't shoot. I'm not sure I could ever get comfortable enough with someone for them to aim a real gun at me and I don't think I could ever aim a real gun at someone under my control.

A very good friend of mine tried this with his girlfriend on Thanksgiving Day 2010. They often played while inebriated, and this time was no exception. They thought the gun was unloaded, but he forgot to unload the round in the chamber. He shot her in the head and killed her. In his guilt he took his own life and burned their house down while he was in it. I'm not saying they were playing in a safe or ideal situation. I'm just saying that if you make a mistake with a gun there is no turning back, and guns are very unforgiving. My advice: keep guns out of sex play and keep them where they belong; ready to kill if needed.