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Have you ever turned a 'vanilla' onto the lifestyle?

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Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Share your experiences!
Is it possible to turn someone stubborn, onto bdsm?
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Yes, I have!
15  (35%)
I have not.
21  (49%)
Other
7  (16%)
Total votes: 43
Poll is closed
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Contributor: plaidvulva plaidvulva
Yes. An exgirlfriend and my current lover.
04/10/2012
Contributor: KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
I certainly have, my boyfriend was just a step beyond vanilla when we met and now he's fantasizing about kinkier things than I'd ever dared hope. ^_^
Aside from him I did introduce one of my male friends to BDSM (explained it and answered his questions mostly, he was a bit curious when he found out I was into it).
04/10/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
I'd say sometimes. A lot of times people will try it, but it's definitely not something for everyone. I did introduce my girlfriend to the idea, and have talked about it with a few friends, but reactions have gone from fun to not interested. The main thing I found is most people will try it at least once, and that's more then you can get for a lot of other activities
04/18/2012
Contributor: Sex Positivity Sex Positivity
I convinced my beau to try it, but he's not really into it.
04/18/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
Share your experiences!
Is it possible to turn someone stubborn, onto bdsm?
I haven't been able to
06/04/2012
Contributor: Phantom2291 Phantom2291
Quote:
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
Share your experiences!
Is it possible to turn someone stubborn, onto bdsm?
I'm not 100% sure, I know I brought up the more intense sex, but she might have had quiet fantasies
08/05/2012
Contributor: k3 k3
More so just helped them realize their..."not-so-vanill a-ness". ;]
08/18/2012
Contributor: Rey Rey
you mean corrupted? yes, yes i have ;P
08/22/2012
Contributor: Do emu Do emu
Quote:
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
Share your experiences!
Is it possible to turn someone stubborn, onto bdsm?
No, I've never had success. My current partner already is into BDSM, thankfully.
08/22/2012
Contributor: RoseIsSoPretty RoseIsSoPretty
Quote:
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
Share your experiences!
Is it possible to turn someone stubborn, onto bdsm?
LOL! I was a vanilla turned by an ex
08/23/2012
Contributor: GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
I'm to lazy for that! I only go for people that are already into bdsm.
08/23/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
Share your experiences!
Is it possible to turn someone stubborn, onto bdsm?
Yes, I have!
08/29/2012
Contributor: tortilla tortilla
never have
08/30/2012
Contributor: SavingMyself SavingMyself
I have not.
08/30/2012
Contributor: Billie Bones Billie Bones
I've helped some people who were already kink curious try it out. I didn't plant the seed...I just poured some water on it.
08/31/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
We both had a thing for it in the beginning--but nowhere near as kinky as we eventually became. We grew together with our kinks, which has been exciting.
08/31/2012
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
When my hubby and I first started dating, he was completely vanilla (though he admitted he had sadistic fantasies). It didn't take much convincing to get him to try bdsm.
09/05/2012
Contributor: Sirena Sirena
Just started with my hubby. He is doing great and seems to be getting into it more and more each day.
09/05/2012
Contributor: Shadowed Shadowed
Now that I think about it, all my partners have been into kink.
09/05/2012
Contributor: damnbul12 damnbul12
I have not.
09/05/2012
Contributor: Nacht Stern Nacht Stern
Yes
She was a fast learner! Wax and restraints are her favorite.
09/05/2012
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
Yes, I was the one turned
09/05/2012
Contributor: apetnamedjenny apetnamedjenny
My girlfriend and I didn't exactly turn from vanilla to kinky, it's more that we just brought it out in each other... I suppose we had never felt comfortable with our fantasies around other people! It feels great to be so open now though!
09/05/2012
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
Share your experiences!
Is it possible to turn someone stubborn, onto bdsm?
My wife is pretty conservative when it comes to sex, although every once in a great while she surprises me!
09/06/2012
Contributor: Big&Bald Big&Bald
We are both moving into so much more now just from this site.
09/06/2012
Contributor: Mhay64 Mhay64
Quote:
Originally posted by Billie Bones
I've helped some people who were already kink curious try it out. I didn't plant the seed...I just poured some water on it.
Same here.
09/06/2012
Contributor: Twiz Twiz
I think so.
09/12/2012
Contributor: Boyqueen Boyqueen
I have not.
09/12/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
Quote:
Originally posted by Shadowed
Now that I think about it, all my partners have been into kink.
Same here.
09/12/2012