How do I explain dominance?

Contributor: Tessa Taboo Tessa Taboo
My husband, by nature, is a pleaser in bed. He doesn't have to work very hard to do it though. Usually, the same things really work for both of us. For most of our relationship though, I have been teh dominant one. As a matter of fact, I've never played the truly submissive part. I trust him 100%, and I know that he would never do anything to make me feel violated, and lately, I have really been wanting him to totally dominate me. I told him, and we tried it, and he was still too much of a 'pleaser.' I don't want to do the whole bit where I have to ask permission for things and all that.... I just want him to basically treat me like a rag doll and do whatever he wants with me.... but he just can't get out if the... habit, if you want to call it that... of making sure I'm enjoying myself.

How can I get him to give me what I'm looking for? Any books, instuctional DVD's, etc. would be helpful.
11/06/2011
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