I have been inerested in BDSM for a long time. I just never thought of myself as that category. The more I learn and the more it seems like me. I have always been into more rough sex. I love spanking, biting, hair pulling, restricting my movement, and I have only been tied up once, but it was amazing. I even enjoy being choked. I enjoy much of what is considered to be a submissives role. I guess what I am asking is how do I get more involved in the lifestyle and the community to see if its what I want? Anyone have any suggestions?
How do you get into the Lifestyle?
03/23/2011
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You can start out with Fetlife.com and see if it's a community you can put up with and just start talking to people. I've seen ads on Craiglist looking for doms and subs, but it's not something I personally recommend unless you'd like to be the subject of a Lifetime movie.
Originally posted by
PunkyB
I have been inerested in BDSM for a long time. I just never thought of myself as that category. The more I learn and the more it seems like me. I have always been into more rough sex. I love spanking, biting, hair pulling, restricting my
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I have been inerested in BDSM for a long time. I just never thought of myself as that category. The more I learn and the more it seems like me. I have always been into more rough sex. I love spanking, biting, hair pulling, restricting my movement, and I have only been tied up once, but it was amazing. I even enjoy being choked. I enjoy much of what is considered to be a submissives role. I guess what I am asking is how do I get more involved in the lifestyle and the community to see if its what I want? Anyone have any suggestions?
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You're going to find out more by word of mouth, there aren't many neon blinking signs to direct you.
03/24/2011
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Thanks for the advice. I will check out the site.
Originally posted by
Ansley
You can start out with Fetlife.com and see if it's a community you can put up with and just start talking to people. I've seen ads on Craiglist looking for doms and subs, but it's not something I personally recommend unless you'd like
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more
You can start out with Fetlife.com and see if it's a community you can put up with and just start talking to people. I've seen ads on Craiglist looking for doms and subs, but it's not something I personally recommend unless you'd like to be the subject of a Lifetime movie.
You're going to find out more by word of mouth, there aren't many neon blinking signs to direct you. less
You're going to find out more by word of mouth, there aren't many neon blinking signs to direct you. less
Almost every single one of my friends are vary vanilla in there sexual tastes. They dont judge me, but I would really love to make friends with similar tastes as myself.
03/25/2011
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