How do you let a new sex partner know you are into BDSM?

Contributor: CS2012 CS2012
I am currently single and I do enjoy BDSM. When I do get a new boyfriend should I let him know after the first time we have sex that I like BDSM and it must be included often or should I mention before we have sex?
11/24/2014
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Contributor: RonLee RonLee
I've learned that it's best to roll it out as a plus rather than something that I should be ashamed of. This is a wonderful thing that you can share with your partner and if that partner cannot handle it that way... good riddance.
11/24/2014
Contributor: benjiwithaz benjiwithaz
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Originally posted by CS2012
I am currently single and I do enjoy BDSM. When I do get a new boyfriend should I let him know after the first time we have sex that I like BDSM and it must be included often or should I mention before we have sex?
I would agree with the person above. I do think it is important to mention before sex. If they run, then they probably wouldn't have been good for you anyway because they weren't willing to listen and work through something that is important to you. I think the ability to do that is really integral in relationships. Just talk about and be honest
12/21/2014
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