How hard do you play?

Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
I like to hit hard, but with past partners, they've not really been able to take it. Luckily, my girl seems to like being hit hard, just not over an extended period of time.
09/08/2011
Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
I prefer not to break the skin, nor leave marks that would hinder future performances.
09/15/2011
Contributor: 131231e43 131231e43
It depends on what they can take, how I'm feeling, and what I'm doing.
01/17/2012
Contributor: panthers panthers
I wish I would get flogged more often.
01/17/2012
Contributor: dhig dhig
middle of the road. i don't mind causing pain or marks, but i'm not as extreme as the next option up.
01/17/2012
Contributor: dks210 dks210
Not interested in real pain. Just being dominated.
01/18/2012
Contributor: LittleBird LittleBird
Ha. I'm in the middle of the road, personally. I really like my skin, please let me keep it.
01/30/2012
Contributor: blackbunny blackbunny
I've been told I can get too carried away sometimes. When I get to that point I just want to hurt. I don't know if that's bad or good it's just how I am.
01/30/2012
Contributor: Mia Fey Mia Fey
I have no idea if I would fall into that end of the spectrum, but I would be willing to find out with a trustworthy and experienced partner.
01/31/2012
Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
We agreed to stop before the blood next time
02/04/2012
Contributor: underHim underHim
dont want open wounds but i dont mind marks left on me
02/05/2012
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
Some people play hard. Some barely graze the skin. And still others fall somewhere in between. So what about you?
I play pretty hard with my Master.
02/05/2012
Contributor: samanthalynn samanthalynn
we r not hard at all
02/06/2012
Contributor: PeachieClean PeachieClean
I said "other" because what I want depends on my mood. Sometimes I like things fairly rough, other times super light. I wouldn't say I'm ever into heavy hitting though. So, light to moderate, I guess?
02/06/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I am not into pain either inflicted on myself or on someone else.
02/07/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by Luscious Lily
We're very much BDSM babies. We're still learning what we like, but so far anything that truly hurts is off limits. We may work up to it some day, but right now? We'll both pass on the heavy hitting, please and thank you!
ditto anything that draws blood or piercing, or leaving marks is off limits for us.
02/07/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by UsaBoxBabe
With my late husband I liked our sex rough now & then - fight, bite, struggle to hold onto each other then hard and fast - great orgasms for both of us. It wasn't for every day sex but lots of fun when we did.

I have never wanted to be ... more
You could do few practice sessions where there are no bondage materials in use (no ropes, restraints, cuffs, tape, etc). Just ask him to sit in a chair, and put his hands behind his back and try to lock his fingers. Then you can work your way by teasing and slowly showing him whatever you would like to be eventually done to you. It is probably a more comfortable introduction to BDSM than showing him leather cuffs outright
02/07/2012
Contributor: Katelyn Katelyn
I went to a BDSM thing last night dressed as a Dom, I love heavy hitting! I wish Eden carried more fetish things : )
02/14/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
We're very light, touch the surface, don't intentionally hurt each other type of couple.
03/20/2012
Contributor: Mirachaya Mirachaya
It depends what kind of mood I'm in and what I or they can take at the time depending who's topping.
07/16/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Middle probably, I wouldn't leave any permanent marks, but I'll hit reasonably hard
07/17/2012
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
I'm not much for pain.
07/17/2012
Contributor: Billie Bones Billie Bones
I like the occasional beating that will leave me with some bruises to remember it by. Day-to-day kind of play is more on the moderate side.
07/17/2012
Contributor: sexykiss sexykiss
i said i wish someone would play with me i want to do this but my gf wont do it, i told her she can be in control but she doesnt want to hurt me
07/18/2012
Contributor: SickOnSin SickOnSin
Quote:
Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
Some people play hard. Some barely graze the skin. And still others fall somewhere in between. So what about you?
I like it rough. I want to be bruised the next day, but I don't want to be bleeding. Just short of blood is my zone.
06/14/2013
Contributor: harvest harvest
I want to see my limits. I haven't seen them yet, but I am thinking I can take quite a bit with the padding I've got.
06/15/2013
Contributor: twelve13 twelve13
I like heavy hit on occasion, so I voted "middle of the road"
06/15/2013
Contributor: sweisb4100 sweisb4100
I don't like broken skin.
06/16/2013
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
I love a little brutality in my play, but no blood.
06/17/2013
Contributor: tami tami
Quote:
Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
Some people play hard. Some barely graze the skin. And still others fall somewhere in between. So what about you?
I like to play but not draw blood or huge bruising but we have fun!
06/17/2013