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Contributor: sugarOne sugarOne
Do you like pain to the point you have to see blood in your sight?
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Contributor: sugarOne sugarOne
Depends really on my mood. There are times where I dont want pain at all and there are times where my body just craves it and wants to see the sight of blood!
09/01/2010
Contributor: Trashley Trashley
Quote:
Originally posted by sugarOne
Depends really on my mood. There are times where I dont want pain at all and there are times where my body just craves it and wants to see the sight of blood!
me too... but most of the time pain wins out :] it's the sexiest thing i can imagine. being in pain is so much more of a vulnerable state than being fucked, in my opinion.
09/02/2010
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
For me actual blood would be way too far. Actual bodily injuries would not be a turn on at all.
10/20/2010
Contributor: Tart Tart
I don't see how blood goes hand in hand with pain, but I do understand that with increased pain comes increased intensity. I love intense pain, but often the activities I engage in do not produce blood.
10/23/2010
Contributor: Tart Tart
Quote:
Originally posted by Trashley
me too... but most of the time pain wins out :] it's the sexiest thing i can imagine. being in pain is so much more of a vulnerable state than being fucked, in my opinion.
I couldn't have said it better myself. Pain for me goes far beyond the pleasure I receive from sex.
10/23/2010
Contributor: Danielle1220 Danielle1220
I like some pain, but not until there is blood. Not all pain brings on blood though.
10/23/2010
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Blood is the mental line that I cannot cross.
11/30/2010
Contributor: lucymalfoy lucymalfoy
No. That much pain just turns me off, especially that amount of pain. Pain is your body's way of letting you know that something is wrong, and I would be too worried that my body was being harmed in a really bad way to enjoy myself anymore.
12/12/2010
Contributor: sbon sbon
No blood!
12/24/2010
Contributor: Lady Neshamah Lady Neshamah
Quote:
Originally posted by sugarOne
Depends really on my mood. There are times where I dont want pain at all and there are times where my body just craves it and wants to see the sight of blood!
very true. but i am also the woman that has tats on her chest, so i can handle it
12/24/2010
Contributor: RosesThorns RosesThorns
I wouldn't say HAVE to see blood, but I do like it!!
12/27/2010
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I like pain, but blood on purpose is not my idea of a good time.
12/29/2010
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
Really depends for me.
12/29/2010
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
For me, it depends how I'm feeling already at the time. I wouldn't mind blood, but my partner is really squeamish so I doubt he'd take anything that far.

Interestingly enough, I used to consider myself someone with VERY low pain tolerance.
12/30/2010
Contributor: Teaser Teaser
I guess I don't get the whole pain thing. I don't want to hurt her, and I really don't want to be hurt. Certainly blood is out of the question!

But for those of you who like it, rock on!
12/30/2010
Contributor: celibacysucks celibacysucks
I'm a little alarmed by how much I like certain TYPES of pain, but even those have limits
01/13/2011
Contributor: vanillaSpice vanillaSpice
Blood? No thanks!
01/19/2011
Contributor: lamira lamira
I can tolerate pain quite well, but I don't want to intentionally bleed.
01/19/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
I'm in between the two. My Sir plays very intensely with me, sometimes to the point of breaking skin. While I don't need that much pain for a scene to feel amazing, I do enjoy it when I am the mood.
01/25/2011
Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
I can't tolerate as much pain as I enjoy. Which sounds weird, I'm sure. Basically, I love a good amount of pain. But even if I'm emotionally enjoying receiving such pain, my body curls up and cries. Then I feel bad for not being able to take it, even though I love it. (And the tears make my boyfriend feel so bad, and I can't stop them! )
01/27/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
Not big on pain. I like submission but it's more about the mental power than the physical.
04/01/2011
Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
I have not gotten to a point where I've decided that something is too painful (my guy's not really enthusiastic about pain), but cuts hurt . We'll see if that ever changes...
04/01/2011
Contributor: Awby Awby
I've bled and I've drawn blood. Quite a few times there has been a bit of blood, but not intentionally. And then there were that handful of times that I've experimented with bloodplay, which was exactly perfect for that moment, that partner. It's not something I crave, nor something I routinely participate in, but it very occasionally finds it way onto the sexual menu.
04/01/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
Blood skeeves me out. That goes too far for me.
04/26/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
Nope that starts to turn me off but i can take it
04/26/2011
Contributor: Ratito Ratito
I'm a "pain slut".
04/27/2011
Contributor: k3 k3
I only really like a bit of pain in small doses, nothing major.
05/01/2011
Contributor: PinkPedal PinkPedal
I don't mind blood.
05/02/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Nope - I don't like blood.
As much as I like some pain, I don't want to be left damaged in any way.
And I know, that my Master would never go so far as to inflick long lasting marks, such as cuts or bruises.
05/08/2011