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Contributor: KC Kitten KC Kitten
I am new to the internet in general, and I've more or less just had regular, plain, missionary position sex any time I've had it, but I'm exploring new things now

Well, I keep hearing about BDSM...and I get the CONCEPT, sorta, but what exactly is it? I think the B stands for Bondage? But what else does it stand for, and what all is it? Like, I think a friend mentioned once Bondage Domination Submission and something else but I'm not sure if that was BDSM?
08/24/2011
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Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
Bondage and Discipline (BD), Dominance and Submission (DS), Sadism and Masochism (SM).
08/24/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
There are some good articles on EdenCafe about BDSM. Much of the stuff Rayne writes, as well as Carrie Ann, Viex and myself among others is about Kink and BDSM. Sir, a long time Eden member, also writes about BDSM from a Doms POV.

Here's some links.
08/24/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
No question is dumb.

I second P'Gell's suggestion to read the articles on EdenCafe and to do some outside research into the subject. It's rather fascinating stuff.
08/24/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
There are some good articles on EdenCafe about BDSM. Much of the stuff Rayne writes, as well as Carrie Ann, Redvinylkitty and myself among others is about Kink and BDSM. Sir, a long time Eden member, also writes about BDSM from a Dom's POV. Most of his stuff is in his blog below.

Here's some links. Roses and Thorns

Rayne also has a great blog

Also, Redvinylkitty (her blog] and Sir (his blog) have many posts about BDSM and great blogs, as does Carrie Ann and Rayne.

There are so many others and I don't want to leave people out. (Add your names and links if can help this fine lady learn more about this most amazing form of Love and Sex.) You can go do EdenCafe and click on Kink.
08/24/2011
Contributor: KC Kitten KC Kitten
Thank you guys so so much for your responses! I am going to check out all of the links and blogs you suggested!!! This was super helpful!
08/26/2011
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
There are so many aspects to BDSM, reading different blogs is really helpful to introduce you to things. You can find anything from just bedroom play to full on 24/7 couples.

I myself first started reading Under his hand, it's a hard core, very in depth blog. There are others that are lighter, it all depends on what you're looking for and interested in as to what you should read. Some things may be way too hard, others may be too soft and not enough.

Reading posts on eden cafe is a great start because you'll get so many peoples opinions and versions. I've posted a few articles on it myself. There is no one way to go about things. Finding BDSM and my owner/master were one of the best things that has happened to me thus far and I hope you enjoy it as well.

If you have any more questions come back, people on the forum are always willing to help, or you can email me. The address is on my profile page.
08/29/2011