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Contributor: SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
I've noticed MANY people into BDSM are in the LGBT community, are you?

Here's some vocab for the sake of this poll:
CIS: Someone who identifies with the sex they are both with. (A biological female who is a woman or a biological male who is a man.)
TRANS*: Anyone who does not identify with their biological sex or has a separate gender-identity. (A biological male who is a woman or a biological female who is genderqueer, etc.)
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I am cis and straight.
27  (31%)
I am trans* and straight.
4  (5%)
I am cis and identify as gay, lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, queer, etc.
28  (33%)
I am trans* and identify as gay, lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, queer, etc.
14  (16%)
Other
13  (15%)
Total votes: 86
Poll is closed
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Contributor: ghalik ghalik
I'm cissexual but not cisgender... so I don't know where I fit in here.
05/26/2012
Contributor: Peggi Peggi
Yeah this sorta left me out too.

I'm technically cis but actually bigender (I have both feminine and masculine attributes to my personality) and while I identify typically as pansexual, I also sometimes am considered to be skoliosexual because I don't base sexual attraction or romantic attraction on one's gender identity.
05/26/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Boringly straight and male identifying as male
05/28/2012
Contributor: MistressDandelion MistressDandelion
FTM, panromantic androsexual individual here.
05/29/2012
Contributor: Phosphorous Tick Phosphorous Tick
\FTM ... heteroflexible? (though appearing homoflexible or something)
Giant clusterfuck.
05/30/2012
Contributor: cryinglightning86 cryinglightning86
Not quite cisgendered - identify as genderqueer more comfortably than female, but will opt for female if it's an either/or situation. Sexuality-wise, I'm queer, but perhaps more specifically pansexual.
05/31/2012
Contributor: Collogue Collogue
Also keep in mind that (*I* believe) you don't have to identify on the spectrum to be involved in the community
05/31/2012
Contributor: Envoutes Envoutes
I'm trans*, though female-bodied and nonbinary. Or just genderqueer, that's probably the term I'd rather go with. I'm also pansexual, although I'd rather just be "sexual" since I don't personally like to be labeled.
06/02/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Just a born-female bodied straight chick. It's fairly uncomplicated. I fuck guys. Works for me.

Nothing other than men have ever appealed to me sexually. I don't know if that's an aberration in itself, or I'm just a plain hetero.

It works for me, so I'm happy with it.
06/02/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by SubmissiveFeminist
I've noticed MANY people into BDSM are in the LGBT community, are you?

Here's some vocab for the sake of this poll:
CIS: Someone who identifies with the sex they are both with. (A biological female who is a woman or a biological ... more
I am a biological female who identifies a female. And I do like BDSM
06/04/2012
Contributor: glassdoll glassdoll
Genderqueer & pansexual.

I identified as simply bi when I entered the lifestyle and have explored/learned some thing about myself as time went on.
06/05/2012
Contributor: carenautilus carenautilus
Cis (mostly) and pansexual here.

What's with all the cis and/or straight people saying they're "less complicated" then trans* and queer folks? I don't get it. And it's kind of annoying. Why is my sexuality more complicated than if I were straight? Why is my (genderfluid) partner's gender more complicated than mine?
06/06/2012
Contributor: Internet Brat Internet Brat
Straight and female.
06/07/2012
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
Cis female and bisexual. Yes.. Bi... not Pan.
06/07/2012
Contributor: hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
Mostly straight cis female, but somewhat genderqueer (I have a male persona who is just as much me as the me I usually am). My male persona is bi-romantic, but homosexual (female genitals just don't work for me).

I'm a dom in both headspaces.
06/07/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
I am androgynous/neutrois identifying and pansexual/sapiosexual (I like me some intelligence and humour more than what's between someone's legs. I'm happy with all parts.)
06/07/2012
Contributor: Heatherbipoly Heatherbipoly
proud bisexual
06/08/2012
Contributor: Greenleaf Greenleaf
Cis female, and bi/pan.
06/09/2012
Contributor: rbruning rbruning
labels, labels, labels...
06/11/2012
Contributor: Roz W Roz W
Quote:
Originally posted by rbruning
labels, labels, labels...
...are admittedly not all-inclusive, but are often useful for describing experiences, particularly less mainstream ones.
06/13/2012
Contributor: justme23 justme23
Quote:
Originally posted by SubmissiveFeminist
I've noticed MANY people into BDSM are in the LGBT community, are you?

Here's some vocab for the sake of this poll:
CIS: Someone who identifies with the sex they are both with. (A biological female who is a woman or a biological ... more
Straight cis.
06/13/2012
Contributor: MidnightStorm MidnightStorm
My boyfriend and I are both CIS and identify as pansexual.
06/15/2012
Contributor: Defiledpixxy Defiledpixxy
I am a cissexual femme pansexual with sapiosexual tendencies.
06/19/2012
Contributor: xMila xMila
All these labels are so confusing. I'm just a female who likes who she likes, gender doesn't matter.
06/19/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
Quote:
Originally posted by xMila
All these labels are so confusing. I'm just a female who likes who she likes, gender doesn't matter.
I totally agree. Since being hear at Eden, I have learned so many different kinds of sexualities that I can't even begin to learn them all. I think sometimes people over complicate things.

I'm a female who likes what she likes. Gender doesn't matter. I all bodies and anatomies.
06/19/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by SubmissiveFeminist
I've noticed MANY people into BDSM are in the LGBT community, are you?

Here's some vocab for the sake of this poll:
CIS: Someone who identifies with the sex they are both with. (A biological female who is a woman or a biological ... more
I'm just confused! lol.
06/20/2012
Contributor: thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
I'm genderqueer and pansexual, and I'm in a triad with one queer cis woman and one queer, bigender femme. I have definitely seen a lot of kinkiness in the queer community, though I think maybe that's because those are the people who I hear talk the most openly about sexuality in general, so I know more about their interests.
06/23/2012
Contributor: pinkpottergirl pinkpottergirl
Genderqueer/genderfuck bi/pan. I am whatever I feel comfortable as in any moment.
06/24/2012
Contributor: SadoMas SadoMas
Other
07/02/2012