What are the best methods or websites to meet other people in the BDSM lifestyle? My ultimate dream is to have a dom one day or be in a M/S relationship, but I know that takes time and patience. I've heard Fetlife mentioned a few times and heard of ALT.com as well. What suggestions or websites do you recommend? I know to be safe, meet in public, etc etc.
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I see a lot of people who seem cool, and some of the doms that have contacted me didn't seem half bad (I'm not out looking for a dom, though, so I always cut the conversation short when they express that they aren't looking for just a friend). There are some creepers, but only one has really given me any hint of the heeby-jeebies, and it wasn't a "this guy wants to stalk, rape, and murder me" kind of vibe, just a "you sound kind of slimy when you talk about your kinks, which feels inappropriate when I told you I have a dom" vibe. I've seen 999999999999x worse in chatrooms.
Originally posted by
KinkyKrissy
uh oh, is that a good or bad thing?
It doesn't hurt to create a profile. The munches for different areas sound really cool (if I make a buddy at school who's into kink, I might go to one)
07/08/2011
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That clears things up a lot, thank you!
Originally posted by
MaryExy
I see a lot of people who seem cool, and some of the doms that have contacted me didn't seem half bad (I'm not out looking for a dom, though, so I always cut the conversation short when they express that they aren't looking for just a
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I see a lot of people who seem cool, and some of the doms that have contacted me didn't seem half bad (I'm not out looking for a dom, though, so I always cut the conversation short when they express that they aren't looking for just a friend). There are some creepers, but only one has really given me any hint of the heeby-jeebies, and it wasn't a "this guy wants to stalk, rape, and murder me" kind of vibe, just a "you sound kind of slimy when you talk about your kinks, which feels inappropriate when I told you I have a dom" vibe. I've seen 999999999999x worse in chatrooms.
It doesn't hurt to create a profile. The munches for different areas sound really cool (if I make a buddy at school who's into kink, I might go to one)
It doesn't hurt to create a profile. The munches for different areas sound really cool (if I make a buddy at school who's into kink, I might go to one)
07/08/2011
I wouldn't say that Fetlife is the place to meet the Dominant of your dreams, however, it is good for making connections. Go to a few play parties or events in your area, you may find someone who you like who is into the same things as you. I personally have not had any luck, but who knows? It could happen when you least expect it.
07/09/2011
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Thanks for your input!
Originally posted by
Sir
I wouldn't say that Fetlife is the place to meet the Dominant of your dreams, however, it is good for making connections. Go to a few play parties or events in your area, you may find someone who you like who is into the same things as you. I
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I wouldn't say that Fetlife is the place to meet the Dominant of your dreams, however, it is good for making connections. Go to a few play parties or events in your area, you may find someone who you like who is into the same things as you. I personally have not had any luck, but who knows? It could happen when you least expect it.
07/12/2011
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