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Contributor: bellytree bellytree
why do you want to be dominated? what is it that you need? what makes a good mistress? i am considering taking on a slave, but i want to make sure that i fully understand the role of both mistress and slave.
06/10/2011
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Contributor: stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
Many different reasons. Let her explore her dark side, stretch limits, a little punishment, edging.
06/12/2011
Contributor: That Man from Mars That Man from Mars
Have you checked out any BDSM communities? There are some very nice resources out there, as well as blogs for people who are just getting involved as a sub or dom. I'd be happy to suggest/link some if you'd like.

I'm not a sub, but I wanted to leave that on the table.
06/12/2011
Contributor: soyandapplecrisp soyandapplecrisp
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Originally posted by That Man from Mars
Have you checked out any BDSM communities? There are some very nice resources out there, as well as blogs for people who are just getting involved as a sub or dom. I'd be happy to suggest/link some if you'd like.

I'm not a sub, but ... more
I would actually be interested if you'd post a couple links, myself. I'm just starting to get into femdom for a nice little switch.
06/15/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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These two books helped us to be able to look into what drives our individual needs...it helped my Sigel to be able to understand what our life partner, Arch, was trying to explain to him about what it means to be a submissive man. I think you'll be surprised by what these two ladies have to say on the matter!

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06/16/2011
Contributor: harryboy1967 harryboy1967
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Originally posted by bellytree
why do you want to be dominated? what is it that you need? what makes a good mistress? i am considering taking on a slave, but i want to make sure that i fully understand the role of both mistress and slave.
Most the time as the Male we are so dominate over our females. So after Joining the Marines an being stationed in Korea. I was introduced to a Mistress by my GF, at 1st I was not interested she gave me an old book from Europe from the Victorian age. I became aroused many nights reading this an my mind opened up to these events. It started slowy an worked up to a monthly an then weekly event I stayed there for three years an was broken down to a mental aspect of sexual discovery. She even Introduced me to the "Bi" side. in the heat of the momant I felt totaly used, abused an raped by all things. Being Dominated has made me realise just what I was missing to feel ones touch, to give others oral pleasure an to highten arouse being spanked untill my orgasm would erupt from my nipples being pulled, mentaly exhausted an having a true multiple orgasm with out an erection.
An yes I'm on Fetlife to find that life once again

Harold
11/30/2011