During sex do you like to have your partner call your names? Like a dirty little slut? Or other names in that general area?
Name calling...
09/01/2010
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It depends on my mood. I dont like my partner to say it all the time! but every once in a while is fine with me!
09/01/2010
Depends on the name and situation, but yes. I love being called an asshole or a jerk, it really makes me excited. Likewise, I use a lot of words too, like slut, bitch, whore. I do not like being called names as much as I like using them, though.
Does being called daddy count? Because that's something she always does.
Does being called daddy count? Because that's something she always does.
09/01/2010
I like to be called names; bitch, whore, slut, cunt, with or with out the preface "dirty", but mostly with it. My favorite though is "good girl"
I call him Daddy, and nothing else in the bedroom except maybe baby or his name every now and then.
I call him Daddy, and nothing else in the bedroom except maybe baby or his name every now and then.
09/01/2010
It depends on my mood.. but I definitely like being called a dirty little slut on occasion. It's been a while, I should change that!
09/01/2010
I don't mind being called a "dirty little girl" or sweet little names like that. My man would never call me a whore or slut, it's not really in his vocabulary, lol (he's french canadian).
I don't like it that he uses this type of speach all the time and he does use it quite often which sort of defeats the purpose of it. It should be saved for intercourse only not for when I am doing the dishes bcs it removes the naughtiness of it, to me any ways.
I don't like it that he uses this type of speach all the time and he does use it quite often which sort of defeats the purpose of it. It should be saved for intercourse only not for when I am doing the dishes bcs it removes the naughtiness of it, to me any ways.
09/02/2010
Not slut, but dirty girl or boy is a common one.
09/02/2010
I always wanted to but could never use "daddy," unless it was in Spanish. It always felt too Freudian for me, and I have wayyyyy too many daddy issues to begin with! Hahah but filthy whore, dirty little slut, undeserving cunt, the whole shebang. I love being used, and most people think it's really weird, but it's truly the submissive that's always in control! :]
09/02/2010
Yes, I love it, but not every time.
09/06/2010
We like to but not all the time
09/09/2010
Not big on name calling at all. Too many bad memories. I like dirty talk sure, but not humiliation.
09/09/2010
I like dirty talk, but I cannot stand being called bad names. Probably a lot of bad associations with the past. If it's mentioned it's an automatic turn off for me and just put my clothes on and go back to whatever I was doing before. =/ Every once and a while "dirty girl" or whatever is fine with me though.
09/09/2010
Up until I got together with my husband, I couldn't stand to be called names such as whore, slut or cunt. The first time he called me a dirty little slut during sex, I had a total "wtf" moment, but I've come to enjoy it now. He never means it in the negative way that I used to associate it with, and I actually get turned on by it now. How things change, lol.
09/13/2010
Ooh I love dirty talk it really gets me going but never been call names. Before I would have been like no way but now I am like depends on the moment how hot and dirty the sex is.
09/14/2010
I love it, particularly insults directed at my intelligence and sexual behavior, "stupid slut" and such
09/18/2010
definitely adds more flavor to the moment and to role playing, especially under sub dom circumstances.
09/18/2010
Name calling is something we've never really gotten into.
09/18/2010
It'd be cool sometimes.
09/19/2010
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I love it! I never thought of name calling on the part of the submissive. I say "I don't like you very much" but that's the extent. I don't want to cross a line. I should talk to my Dom about this, I would love to call him an asshole!
Originally posted by
Sir
Depends on the name and situation, but yes. I love being called an asshole or a jerk, it really makes me excited. Likewise, I use a lot of words too, like slut, bitch, whore. I do not like being called names as much as I like using them,
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Depends on the name and situation, but yes. I love being called an asshole or a jerk, it really makes me excited. Likewise, I use a lot of words too, like slut, bitch, whore. I do not like being called names as much as I like using them, though.
Does being called daddy count? Because that's something she always does. less
Does being called daddy count? Because that's something she always does. less
10/21/2010
I love being called all sorts of names. At first I wasnt comfortable with it. But once I learnt to take it as fun, I enjoy it.
10/22/2010
Sometimes it's fun, I have to be in the mood.
10/22/2010
I've never been called a name during sex, so I don't really know. Hmm. I may have to casually mention this forum topic to my boyfriend.
10/27/2010
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HAHAA!! That's cute, I like that.
Originally posted by
Tart
I love it! I never thought of name calling on the part of the submissive. I say "I don't like you very much" but that's the extent. I don't want to cross a line. I should talk to my Dom about this, I would love to call him an asshole!
She knows that it gets me off, because I can sometimes be an arrogant jerk and hearing her call me an asshole just makes me feel more aggressive and almost playful in a way. It's sort of strange, because I'm not masochistic, but I also like to be smacked in the face for the same reason that I like being called an asshole.
Now, if she were to call me a bitch, then I'd get livid pissed...
11/04/2010
I'm his bitch in the bedroom, but since that's less and less due to both of us working I'm normally just his cuddlemuffin.
11/05/2010
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Yeah, me too. Can't use "Daddy" even in Spanish (which is close to Italian, where my people are from. And Spanish, the culture which one of my girl's fiancees is from.)) Too Freudian and......icky for me. My Man and I HAVE kids, so they call him "Daddy" or "Papi" and it makes both My Man and I uncomfortable for me to call him that in any context. With the exception of "Go ask Papi if he will take you to the store."
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Trashley
I always wanted to but could never use "daddy," unless it was in Spanish. It always felt too Freudian for me, and I have wayyyyy too many daddy issues to begin with! Hahah but filthy whore, dirty little slut, undeserving cunt, the whole
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I always wanted to but could never use "daddy," unless it was in Spanish. It always felt too Freudian for me, and I have wayyyyy too many daddy issues to begin with! Hahah but filthy whore, dirty little slut, undeserving cunt, the whole shebang. I love being used, and most people think it's really weird, but it's truly the submissive that's always in control! :]
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Other nasty words are fine. We both use them and have a good time. My Man asked me long ago, if he could use these words in bed before doing so. Consent is the key, I think.
11/05/2010
Sometimes, I don't like slut or whore but bitch and fuck toy are pretty common. I don't really call him anything specific.
11/05/2010
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I use "babe" a lot. I sometimes call him a "son of a bitch" when things get really hot. Or when I'm goofing around.
Originally posted by
SexyTabby
Sometimes, I don't like slut or whore but bitch and fuck toy are pretty common. I don't really call him anything specific.
He also uses "nasty words" in humor (as long as the kids aren't in hearing range.) "Go make me a sammich, bitch!" It's all in good fun, he'd never use them in a mean way.
11/05/2010
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rofl hubby tells me all the time to 'go make a sammich woman!' lol
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P'Gell
I use "babe" a lot. I sometimes call him a "son of a bitch" when things get really hot. Or when I'm goofing around.
He also uses "nasty words" in humor (as long as the kids aren't in hearing range.) ... more
He also uses "nasty words" in humor (as long as the kids aren't in hearing range.) ... more
I use "babe" a lot. I sometimes call him a "son of a bitch" when things get really hot. Or when I'm goofing around.
He also uses "nasty words" in humor (as long as the kids aren't in hearing range.) "Go make me a sammich, bitch!" It's all in good fun, he'd never use them in a mean way. less
He also uses "nasty words" in humor (as long as the kids aren't in hearing range.) "Go make me a sammich, bitch!" It's all in good fun, he'd never use them in a mean way. less
In the bedroom though it's mainly me talking so I usually refer to myself as bitch or fuck toy. Hubby's too sweet to be aggressive in name calling lol.
11/05/2010
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LOL! He calls me "Woman!" all the time. Often when he's being funny, when we're in bed, and once in a while, I think, when he's really angry and wants to avoid using something more offensive. He came from a very verbally abusive family, (and physically abusive) and is working very hard to not repeat the past.
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SexyTabby
rofl hubby tells me all the time to 'go make a sammich woman!' lol
In the bedroom though it's mainly me talking so I usually refer to myself as bitch or fuck toy. Hubby's too sweet to be aggressive in name calling lol.
In the bedroom though it's mainly me talking so I usually refer to myself as bitch or fuck toy. Hubby's too sweet to be aggressive in name calling lol.
I think, in a way, our "play" with this kind of talk is Healing. We both know when it's used in an affectionate or sexual way, or a playful way, and it helps defuse the abuse from our pasts.
It's amazing how many variations of "Rough Sex" are actually therapeutic! But, I think you need to be ready for it, we could never have done some of this stuff, say even 10 years ago, because it was too close and too soon. We both had to grow before we could ease into some of this stuff.
11/05/2010
For us, unless it's girl/boy... man/woman... sir/ma'am... then no.
11/05/2010