Hello, I am very new to all of this. IDK even know if BDSM is really what we like. But we are very courisuse. Is there any web sites for newcomers? Maybe some terms and definations, how to use items ( such as we were looking at the figure 8 ball strap but have no idea how this item will work. We looked on line for a few hours trying to find a pic of it in use with no luck), how to tie some basic knots.

Also I have one item in mind but when I do do a key word search on the net I don't get any results I"m sure I can't be the only one who thought of this. Maybe my key words IDK.. " Clit Paddle" any sugestions how I might be able to find this online?

Thank you for everything.

Lori less

Hello, I am very new to all of this. IDK even know if BDSM is really what we like. But we are very courisuse. Is there any web sites for newcomers? Maybe some terms and definations, how to use items ( such as we were looking at the figure 8 ball strap but have no idea how this item will work. We looked on line for a few hours trying to find a pic of it in use with no luck), how to tie some basic knots.

Also I have one item in mind but when I do do a key word search on the net I don't get any results I"m sure I can't be the only one who thought of this. Maybe my key words IDK.. " Clit Paddle" any sugestions how I might be able to find this online?

Thank you for everything.

Lori less

You could join FetLife, there's lots of information to be had in the groups on there.

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That group seems like a pretty good place to start as far as definitions and such go.

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Also you should give this one a look over, safety plays a huge part in anything kinky. less