OTK or Over The Knee vs. Bent Over, Which is better for...

Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
For those who enjoy a red bottomed night or day, do you prefer to be spanked OTK or while being bent over something? I'm facing a decision on how to "correct" some behavior and can't decide if I should have my subject on my knee or bent over something.

If it helps any, I will start out with my hand and slowly graduate to a two sided paddle. Also, if OTK, a pillow or other cushion will be provided for the recipient to kneel on. If standing the recipient will be wearing comfortable shoes and bent over to a more comfortable angle to facilitate the spanking.

Finally, is it better to have the underwear removed or simply pulled down? I was thinking that it might be more enjoyable experience if the underwear was to be removed and placed in my hand before this scene gets really started.

Now, I just need your thoughts on the subject. Let me know down below. Thanks in advance!
04/06/2016
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Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
For those who enjoy a red bottomed night or day, do you prefer to be spanked OTK or while being bent over something? I'm facing a decision on how to "correct" some behavior and can't decide if I should have my subject on my knee or ... more
Over the knees please. Hopefully less force with less distance to swing.

And yes no undies. Good for giver to see results as she/he goes. Wouldn't want to smack so hard that the session if over quickly.
And have the undies close by. Might need to put in receiver's.
04/07/2016
Contributor: DancerKittyKat DancerKittyKat
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Over the knees please. Hopefully less force with less distance to swing.

And yes no undies. Good for giver to see results as she/he goes. Wouldn't want to smack so hard that the session if over quickly.
And have the undies close by. ... more
I like the idea of my Dom pulling me over his knee and shoving my panties down so they are bunched around my knees, restricting my leg movement. He would deliver a flurry of smacks to my ass, starting out light before building up to the louder spanks. He would check in every once in a while, rubbing my cheeks and whispering in my ear what a good girl I was. By the time he was finished with my spanking, I would be panting and very wet. My Dom would pull up my panties, making me spend the rest of the day with a sore, red ass and a dripping cunt! But clearly, this wouldn't be a punishment spanking...

I think for punishment spankings, the recipient should be as comfortable as possible, so whatever works best. OTK seems more personal and allows for more control, but perhaps you would decide to deliver the spanking over a bed or table so the spanking isn't as personal. Panties around the ankles makes the scene much hotter, but perhaps taking them off would seem more formal.
04/09/2016
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by DancerKittyKat
I like the idea of my Dom pulling me over his knee and shoving my panties down so they are bunched around my knees, restricting my leg movement. He would deliver a flurry of smacks to my ass, starting out light before building up to the louder ... more
Uumm, using the undies/panties for binding. Good idea !

Do you say thank you afterwards ?
04/09/2016
Contributor: DancerKittyKat DancerKittyKat
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Uumm, using the undies/panties for binding. Good idea !

Do you say thank you afterwards ?
Manners are always important! A please and thank you is to be expected from me.
04/10/2016
Contributor: symbiasin symbiasin
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Uumm, using the undies/panties for binding. Good idea !

Do you say thank you afterwards ?
Have you been takin Dom lessons? lolol
04/10/2016
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by symbiasin
Have you been takin Dom lessons? lolol
Why yes, as a matter of fact. From DKK.
04/10/2016
Contributor: DancerKittyKat DancerKittyKat
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Why yes, as a matter of fact. From DKK.
Hehe... I am definitely not a Dom...
04/10/2016
Contributor: Andykh Andykh
My wife and i both enjoy spanking. We have never tried over the knees tho. And the tying up with undies thing does sound like fun
04/11/2016