My husband and I share the dominant role. Neither of us is really more dominant than the other. It's perfect for us. We are able to switch back and forth we ease and we know exactly how much to do.

I bring more creativity and ideas to the bedroom though. I am more expressive in that way.

Ooo St. Andrew's Cross! I wish we lived in a big enough apartment to use ours! Alas... it sits in the closet.

I've gotta say, the best bondage for me is mental. When he tells me to get into position and stay there. While I love being physically bound or held in place, there's just something about not being able to move because "He says so."

*creative
Typos plague the world...

If y'all want to spice things up or get him to be more creative, look into those 365 days of sex books they sell at Spencer's or other stores of the like. That could add some spice and it doesn't necessarily have to be kinky

I guess I am more creative but my b/f is always ready to move on an idea and add to it. He buys many of my toys now, certainly creative as a few I would have passed over but they are so..so..good.
He is the cautious one about noise so will tamper things down, if I get too loud.

I'm definitely the submissive of our duo, and my wife is the dominant. It may not appear that way outside the bedroom, or to the casual observer though. These positions just fit us both so naturally though. I LOVE being able to give up control to her, and just be obedient to her and her desires, and she LOVES the feeling she gets knowing the power she has over me.

As for my favorite methods, I do enjoy bondage and teasing a lot, but my FAVORITE has to be the long-term mental and physical bondage methods we sometimes use, hidden from the outside world. For example, my wife may request that I put on my neosteel chastity belt for an undetermined amount of time, and give her the keys. Being discretely locked up and unable to experience even the slightest touch while in public, or at work, is simply indescribable. Top that off with her requesting that I wear a pair of her panties with it, underneath my clothes to work, and I'm in a state of distracted arousal all day. Of course the dominant in her will further use this to her advantage to tease me, make me watch her masturbate, or even pleasure her, without letting me out. It's a vicious feedback cycle, and a complete mind game, but we both LOVE it.

I am pretty much submissive all the time, I guess, but it's more of a dynamic than the D/s lifestyle. In the bedroom I am totally at his mercy (or lack there of). I love to have my wrists held down by him. I tend to get loud and we have two kids, so he will get me quiet and my favorites are a hand over the mouth, him kissing me (oh that gets me every time), and the best is when he tells me to shut the hell up!!! That whole mental thing, wondering what he will do if I don't...hmm

I'm very submissive and love to be restrained.Cuffs,Chain s,rope.I love the feeling of total helplessness.

I prefer to take control at all times; no matter the time, no matter the place. My partner is very submissive, but she's also extremely disobedient to me, so that poses some problems when I try to get her to do things for me. It makes me very angry when she does that.

We live a full-time lifestyle because that's just who we are. I do not like disobedient submissives and I do not like it when they act bad with me. I made an exception for her because I'm in love with my little girl, I can't very much let her go.

My sub and I have moved into what I would describe as a very loving 24/7 lifestyle; one that I consider a marriage of sorts. He and I have made the decision that I choose everything for him - what he wears, what happens to the money he makes, even what sort of work he should do. But, he doesn't call me by my Domme name all day long, he still does his own thing, I don't expect him to constantly stay in his subspace.

He has chosen to give me a great gift of trust, and that is the offer of complete control over any and every aspect of his life and body. There are no secrets kept from me, anything which I desire I have access to. To me, this is all I could ever ask for in a sub.

My sub and I have a daily collaring ceremony that sinks us both into D/s roll pretty strongly. It's a very simple little ceremony, she kneels at my feet and I either hold her head in my hands or we just look into each others eyes for a moment.
It's something we can do every day, even when we're both really busy or sick, that reestablishes our role-play and increases our intimacy.

Both my partner and I are submissive (which of course can lead to some occasional problems "no I want to be tied up!"), but generally she has me take the dominant role in the bedroom. However, on the awesome occasions of reversing that it's a total treat...I love to be able to give up control to her! Wonderful sensation.

i'm a natural submissive, floating around between sub and slave, and working 24/7 in private, away from classes and whatnot, if that makes sense. it's more of a mindset for me. i give up both physical and psychological control fairly easily, primarily due to my nature but supplemented by my training. i enjoy S/m as well, so that's a big part of it, but following directions is probably the number one thing.