I'm looking at the butt dildo harness. It's very expensive, and has a clunky design. I have lots of fantasies about wearing a dildo inside me (possibly an anal dildo if I decide to engage in a bit more anal play, and maybe even both at one point)for 'long' periods of time. By long term I mean maybe a few hours or a day. I'd love to have my bf put it in me in the morning and have me begging for it by the end of the day. I know safety of dildos is an issue (as well as lube, but I'm lubed up almost all day long on my own), and I can only find this harness...which is not suitable for wearing under clothing in public.

Anyone into this/know where to find other harnesses/toys?

Anal plugs are a thing, but I can't find much on vaginal dildos.