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S/d LTR and having children?

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Contributor: salaciousrex salaciousrex
Would you still call each other "Master" and such around the kids? and would any needed punishments just happen when the kids aren't around? and are you both in charge of parenting styles?

I'm just wondering in general how a dom/sub relationship would work if you have kids, my boyfriend insists it would be impossible for us since I have a child, if all of that stuff would be put aside while the kids are around, or if aspects still stay.
Thanks
05/02/2011
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Contributor: Pnutbuttatoast Pnutbuttatoast
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Originally posted by salaciousrex
Would you still call each other "Master" and such around the kids? and would any needed punishments just happen when the kids aren't around? and are you both in charge of parenting styles?



I'm just wondering in ... more
I would put that stuff aside while the children are around because that would send a bad message to them about men and women.
05/18/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
I have to agree with darigaaz on this one. Unless you have really tame pet names that won't draw suspicion. Don't need your kids going to school and spreading details of your sex life around. I don't think the teachers would like it overly and I get the feeling that Parent/Teacher interviews might get a bit embarrassing.
05/19/2011
Contributor: salaciousrex salaciousrex
Yeah, of course. I definitely wouldn't want any of that stuff going on around my kid. I just tell my boyfriend that in the bedroom we could be like that, and the rest of the day be normal. And he says for a sub/dom relationship you have to be like that 24/7 so it wouldn't work. I was just curious what or how everyone else does it!
05/20/2011
Contributor: NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
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Originally posted by Pnutbuttatoast
I would put that stuff aside while the children are around because that would send a bad message to them about men and women.
I agree with darigaaz20. For both the privacy of you and your boyfriend, along with being good role models, try and keep parenting and sexual dynamics apart.
05/20/2011