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Safe words: Do you use them?

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Contributor: blackadeezee blackadeezee
Do you have one? Do you feel the need to use one? Is yours funny?
Ours is "safe". I can yell no all night but my husband wont stop unless I yell safe.
04/24/2012
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Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
We have one, but she hasn't had a reason to use it yet.
04/25/2012
Contributor: SubmissiveMommy SubmissiveMommy
Quote:
Originally posted by blackadeezee
Do you have one? Do you feel the need to use one? Is yours funny?
Ours is "safe". I can yell no all night but my husband wont stop unless I yell safe.
I know I'm new here but I've been in the lifestyle for 10 years now, and I can say I've only safeworded twice. Mine is "blue." The reason being, I really feel that a safe word should be so out of place in the play scene that the Dom has to stop and think "what did she just say?"
04/26/2012
Contributor: momma22js momma22js
Honestly yeah mine is one of my children's names if I say one of their names it kinda kills the mood lol but I have never needed to say them
04/29/2012
Contributor: pootpootpoot pootpootpoot
After a bad experience, not anymore. We set up limits ahead of time so that they won't be necessary, and if we need to stop because of an emergency it's usually pretty easy to make it clear.
04/29/2012
Contributor: tammyandy69 tammyandy69
safe words are a must for me, or a safe out ( like holding keys to be dropped if unable to speak). I have nevered had anyone use one yet...I pay close attention to my partners.
05/04/2012