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Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
How much is too much? do you prefer to be spanked with your partners bare hand or a paddle/whip?
Is a "parent" spanking a "child" scene too much?
Have you ever cum from a spanking?
10/24/2010
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Contributor: Alicia Alicia
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Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
How much is too much? do you prefer to be spanked with your partners bare hand or a paddle/whip?
Is a "parent" spanking a "child" scene too much?
Have you ever cum from a spanking?
I don't like to be spanked to the point of absolute pain, I like just a decent enough slap to cause a nice sting. I prefer his hand since the grab after is half the fun.


I personally think a parent/child scene in general is too much, I find it disturbing, but to each their own. I guess as long as it's not a real parent/child it's harmless, it just creeps me out.

I haven't cum from spanking only, but it's turned me on to the point that the spank is what brought me over the edge to orgasm.
10/24/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
In general I wouldn't be interested in any type of "minor being spanked" play scene no matter what side I was on (spanker or spankee).
10/24/2010
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
I do enjoy being spanked. I'll get wet but never reached an orgasm from it.

Nothing about children really belongs in the sexual field as far as I'm concerned. Too disturbing.
10/24/2010
Contributor: Sir Sir
I am a spanker, and I enjoy spanking in many ways, with bare hands, gloved hands, a paddle, etc. Since my girl and I are in a Daddy/little girl relationship, the "child/parent" scene isn't "too much" - it's a daily thing for us, so we do not really pay much attention to that aspect since it's simply a dynamic of our relationship.

My girl hasn't ever finished from a spanking, but she's always become extremely wet. Whether I indulge on that want is entirely up to me, however.
10/25/2010
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
Spankytime=funtime
10/25/2010
Contributor: StrawberryEve StrawberryEve
I absolutely love getting spanked! Especially if I'm in tight jeans or a short skirt. Bare is also fun, but the tingling sensation spreads more with clothes on.

I'm more of a fan of the discipline "teacher/student" dynamic than child/parent. But I think I could try it with the "sibling" dynamic.
10/25/2010
Contributor: Trashley Trashley
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Originally posted by SexyTabby
I do enjoy being spanked. I'll get wet but never reached an orgasm from it.

Nothing about children really belongs in the sexual field as far as I'm concerned. Too disturbing.
^^ Agree, agree, agree.
10/25/2010
Contributor: Trashley Trashley
Oh, but I could do a schoolgirl type of thing, considering I was a schoolgirl.. :]
10/25/2010
Contributor: Raven51983 Raven51983
I enjoy being on both the giving and recieving end of spanking...but neiter me or my girl has ever finished from it
10/25/2010
Contributor: Madeira Madeira
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
How much is too much? do you prefer to be spanked with your partners bare hand or a paddle/whip?
Is a "parent" spanking a "child" scene too much?
Have you ever cum from a spanking?
I enjoy being spanked, but I certainly would not RP a parent/child scene. I would RP a nun spanking a student though
10/25/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Teacher/student would still be too uncomfortable for me. I think that spanking, for me, would best be done outside of RP.
10/25/2010
Contributor: Hot'n'Bothered Hot'n'Bothered
It's not my thing...I don't really even care for DH doing 'play' spanks when I'm cooking or anything like that.
10/25/2010
Contributor: Research Research
I've never been very comfortable with spanking, and I've never been with someone who wanted to be spanked. A few times I've tried a firm slap to the buttock of my partner during intercourse to little effect. One person was indifferent and the other asked me not to do it again.
10/25/2010
Contributor: Maitreya Maitreya
I quite enjoy getting spanked with a bare hand. My fantasies tend to revolve around student/teacher relationships.
It's gotten me excited, but never brought me to orgasm.
10/27/2010
Contributor: leatherlover leatherlover
My wife and I both enjoy a nice spanking. We either use our bare hands or a fluffy heart paddle. She prefers the fluffy side while I prefer the harder leather side. Neither of us have ever finished from a spanking.
10/27/2010
Contributor: HisLittleGirl HisLittleGirl
Quote:
Originally posted by Sir
I am a spanker, and I enjoy spanking in many ways, with bare hands, gloved hands, a paddle, etc. Since my girl and I are in a Daddy/little girl relationship, the "child/parent" scene isn't "too much" - it's a daily thing ... more
I am in a Daddy/little girl relationship too and we also enjoy lots-o-spanking.

We aren't necessarily a child/parent dynamic... more of a childish adult with submissive tendencies/nurturing adult with paternal and dominant tendencies relationship. But that might be nit picking specifics hahaha. Regardless, there is never any hint of incest or pedophilia present in any of our fantasies. Ever.
10/28/2010
Contributor: briluminary briluminary
I'm not really into spanking that much, but if so, only occasionally :p
08/12/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
Getting spanked makes me really wet, usually. I like it with hands and toys. There's so much more experimenting to be done in my case!
08/12/2011
Contributor: OhioJoe OhioJoe
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
How much is too much? do you prefer to be spanked with your partners bare hand or a paddle/whip?
Is a "parent" spanking a "child" scene too much?
Have you ever cum from a spanking?
I enjoy giving an erotic spanking to a willing lady. I enjoy caressing her bare butt cheeks before I spank and between each stroke - spreading the warmth and teasing the excited nerve endings as I enjoy feeling her brests pressed against my thigh. I enjoy feeling her nipples become erect and watch her pussy glisten with desire.....
08/12/2011
Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
I love spanking with a bare hand. I feel there's more of a connection, but I do love exploring with toys.
08/13/2011
Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
I like the little sting.
I kinda wanna try a paddle someday.
08/16/2011
Contributor: KinkBiLove KinkBiLove
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
How much is too much? do you prefer to be spanked with your partners bare hand or a paddle/whip?
Is a "parent" spanking a "child" scene too much?
Have you ever cum from a spanking?
Being spanked is freaking awesome !!! It excites me
08/16/2011
Contributor: kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
How much is too much? do you prefer to be spanked with your partners bare hand or a paddle/whip?
Is a "parent" spanking a "child" scene too much?
Have you ever cum from a spanking?
hand,paddle,whip is all good....well I don';t think about parents spanking children to be honest...it never comes to mind when I think about spanking,read about spanking or get spanked..well I like any kind of spank I guess but not painful
08/16/2011
Contributor: Kitsune9 Kitsune9
I love being spanked. I also love spanking. My bf and I are switches, and we play both Daddy/little girl and Mommy/boy roles. We also enjoy just spanking for the heck of it. I don't think that it has ever caused us to cum just from that, but it's definitely a good warm up.
08/16/2011
Contributor: Vanessa Weiss Vanessa Weiss
We don't really role-play and our dynamic is definitely more D/s than daddy/girl or whatever, so it's not really part of our relationship structure either. But he spanks me a LOT and I love it. A bare-ass spanking with the hand or the paddle really gets me off.
08/17/2011
Contributor: Ava5 Ava5
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
How much is too much? do you prefer to be spanked with your partners bare hand or a paddle/whip?
Is a "parent" spanking a "child" scene too much?
Have you ever cum from a spanking?
I am not into age play at all.. but spanking can be pretty fun
08/23/2011
Contributor: TameTemptress TameTemptress
Love being spanked. My husband actually tried it when we were new in our sexual relationship, and I laughed. And I couldn't stop laughing, and I don't know why, it just sent me into fits of giggles and didn't do a thing for me. Thankfully, he tried again some time later and I loved it. I'm glad he gave it another try.
08/23/2011
Contributor: Miss Morphine Miss Morphine
I've cum from spanking before when I've had a butt plug inserted, but from spanking along I've only gotten wet.
08/24/2011
Contributor: Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
I've been spanked lightly on the butt during sex, and it can be kind of fun, but I don't have a strong opinion on it either way. It can turn me on but never gets me off. Not into any sort of adult/child play though, that stuff is not sexy at all to me.
09/06/2011