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Contributor: JustAWeeKitteh JustAWeeKitteh
Personally I think it depends on my mood, but I'm curious about others now XD !
09/09/2011
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Contributor: Ghost Ghost
I am not submissive. I like to be acted "upon", but I am always in control of that action.
09/10/2011
Contributor: EJ EJ
Not so much.
09/11/2011
Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
Nope. Not a big fan of being the bottom.
09/22/2011
Contributor: Kilgorescowboy Kilgorescowboy
sometimes
09/22/2011
Contributor: Lady Neshamah Lady Neshamah
not a sub at all.
09/22/2011
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
Very dominant.
09/22/2011
Contributor: Kkay Kkay
I'm capable of nondynamic sex, but within dynamic sex, I'm exclusively submissive.
09/22/2011
Contributor: wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
I used to be very submissive, but I've found that with my girlfriend I am more dominant. She likes it when I take charge, and even though I still sometimes shy away from being dominant, it turns her on when I am, and when she is turned on, I get turned on.
09/22/2011
Contributor: hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
I can be submissive, sometimes, when the mood strikes. However, it strikes very rarely, and I'm still not a good or obedient submissive. I'm much more dominant.
09/23/2011
Contributor: wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
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Originally posted by hyacinthgirl
I can be submissive, sometimes, when the mood strikes. However, it strikes very rarely, and I'm still not a good or obedient submissive. I'm much more dominant.
haha, my gf says she likes it when I'm dominant, but she's such a disobedient submissive when I am.
09/23/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I'm always the sub! I can't deal with a guy who allows me to dominate him - I hate to say it, but I find them weak and beneath me. I just don't deal well in that situation.

I love a guy who can always be in charge!
09/24/2011
Contributor: submissive.sweetheart submissive.sweetheart
SUBMISSIVE!!!!

To me, being able to give control, fully, to another, is perhaps one of the most freeing things out there

I personally don't enjoy switching, since I feel overwhelmed with the thought of Dominating someone else. I'm perfectly content learning to be the best slave possible.

And I love my Daddy/Sir
09/24/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
I'm a switch with a slight preference toward Dominant, but for the right person (my lover has proven to be that person) I can give myself freely and submit completely. Submission is soothing to me, it makes me feel more in control to be controlled.
09/24/2011
Contributor: wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
Quote:
Originally posted by Shellz31
I'm always the sub! I can't deal with a guy who allows me to dominate him - I hate to say it, but I find them weak and beneath me. I just don't deal well in that situation.

I love a guy who can always be in charge!
When I was with men, I hated that, too. I always wanted them to dominate me or else I didn't want anything to do with sex with them. It was a total turn-off.
09/24/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by JustAWeeKitteh
Personally I think it depends on my mood, but I'm curious about others now XD !
For me, it's not my mood, and it isn't my personality, either. But, it is my sex role with My Man. Go figure. But, it works for us.
09/24/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by wrecklesswords
haha, my gf says she likes it when I'm dominant, but she's such a disobedient submissive when I am.
Well, dear, that's what... discipline is for.

09/24/2011
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
Quote:
Originally posted by Shellz31
I'm always the sub! I can't deal with a guy who allows me to dominate him - I hate to say it, but I find them weak and beneath me. I just don't deal well in that situation.

I love a guy who can always be in charge!
I'm kind of the same way. I definitely don't stay interested in a guy for very long if I am the one who has to take charge.
09/24/2011
Contributor: hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by Taylor
I'm kind of the same way. I definitely don't stay interested in a guy for very long if I am the one who has to take charge.
For me, there's a big difference in the way I'm taking charge. When I'm taking charge of my sub, it's an amazing turn-on, because he's a strong, competent, intelligent man in his everyday life, and having him submit to me makes me feel like the most powerful, desirable woman ever.

With my ex, I eventually just took charge because if I didn't, there was no sex (found out later he didn't care about our sex life because he was getting plenty elsewhere). There's a huge difference to me when my sub gets on his knees in front of me, and when my ex expected me to get on top of him and bounce until both of us were finished.
09/24/2011
Contributor: beachluv51800 beachluv51800
I prefer the guy to be aggressive, so in my perfect fantasy in my mind, yes, I think I would be more submissive
09/24/2011
Contributor: SomeGirl SomeGirl
I'm very submissive. I cannot be dominant for the life of me.
09/25/2011
Contributor: TheSlyFox TheSlyFox
My Boyfriend is the sub in our relationship, buuut, in most relationships past, i have been a submissive---who didn't listen very well.. lol.!
10/10/2011