Personally I think it depends on my mood, but I'm curious about others now XD !
Submissive or not?
09/09/2011
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I am not submissive. I like to be acted "upon", but I am always in control of that action.
09/10/2011
Not so much.
09/11/2011
Nope. Not a big fan of being the bottom.
09/22/2011
sometimes
09/22/2011
not a sub at all.
09/22/2011
Very dominant.
09/22/2011
I'm capable of nondynamic sex, but within dynamic sex, I'm exclusively submissive.
09/22/2011
I used to be very submissive, but I've found that with my girlfriend I am more dominant. She likes it when I take charge, and even though I still sometimes shy away from being dominant, it turns her on when I am, and when she is turned on, I get turned on.
09/22/2011
I can be submissive, sometimes, when the mood strikes. However, it strikes very rarely, and I'm still not a good or obedient submissive. I'm much more dominant.
09/23/2011
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haha, my gf says she likes it when I'm dominant, but she's such a disobedient submissive when I am.
Originally posted by
hyacinthgirl
I can be submissive, sometimes, when the mood strikes. However, it strikes very rarely, and I'm still not a good or obedient submissive. I'm much more dominant.
09/23/2011
I'm always the sub! I can't deal with a guy who allows me to dominate him - I hate to say it, but I find them weak and beneath me. I just don't deal well in that situation.
I love a guy who can always be in charge!
I love a guy who can always be in charge!
09/24/2011
SUBMISSIVE!!!!
To me, being able to give control, fully, to another, is perhaps one of the most freeing things out there
I personally don't enjoy switching, since I feel overwhelmed with the thought of Dominating someone else. I'm perfectly content learning to be the best slave possible.
And I love my Daddy/Sir
To me, being able to give control, fully, to another, is perhaps one of the most freeing things out there
I personally don't enjoy switching, since I feel overwhelmed with the thought of Dominating someone else. I'm perfectly content learning to be the best slave possible.
And I love my Daddy/Sir
09/24/2011
I'm a switch with a slight preference toward Dominant, but for the right person (my lover has proven to be that person) I can give myself freely and submit completely. Submission is soothing to me, it makes me feel more in control to be controlled.
09/24/2011
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When I was with men, I hated that, too. I always wanted them to dominate me or else I didn't want anything to do with sex with them. It was a total turn-off.
Originally posted by
Shellz31
I'm always the sub! I can't deal with a guy who allows me to dominate him - I hate to say it, but I find them weak and beneath me. I just don't deal well in that situation.
I love a guy who can always be in charge!
I love a guy who can always be in charge!
09/24/2011
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For me, it's not my mood, and it isn't my personality, either. But, it is my sex role with My Man. Go figure. But, it works for us.
Originally posted by
JustAWeeKitteh
Personally I think it depends on my mood, but I'm curious about others now XD !
09/24/2011
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Well, dear, that's what... discipline is for.
Originally posted by
wrecklesswords
haha, my gf says she likes it when I'm dominant, but she's such a disobedient submissive when I am.
09/24/2011
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I'm kind of the same way. I definitely don't stay interested in a guy for very long if I am the one who has to take charge.
Originally posted by
Shellz31
I'm always the sub! I can't deal with a guy who allows me to dominate him - I hate to say it, but I find them weak and beneath me. I just don't deal well in that situation.
I love a guy who can always be in charge!
I love a guy who can always be in charge!
09/24/2011
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For me, there's a big difference in the way I'm taking charge. When I'm taking charge of my sub, it's an amazing turn-on, because he's a strong, competent, intelligent man in his everyday life, and having him submit to me makes me feel like the most powerful, desirable woman ever.
Originally posted by
Taylor
I'm kind of the same way. I definitely don't stay interested in a guy for very long if I am the one who has to take charge.
With my ex, I eventually just took charge because if I didn't, there was no sex (found out later he didn't care about our sex life because he was getting plenty elsewhere). There's a huge difference to me when my sub gets on his knees in front of me, and when my ex expected me to get on top of him and bounce until both of us were finished.
09/24/2011
I prefer the guy to be aggressive, so in my perfect fantasy in my mind, yes, I think I would be more submissive
09/24/2011
I'm very submissive. I cannot be dominant for the life of me.
09/25/2011
My Boyfriend is the sub in our relationship, buuut, in most relationships past, i have been a submissive---who didn't listen very well.. lol.!
10/10/2011
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