Subs: Leave marks on your dom? Doms: Do you like getting marks from your sub?

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Subs: Leave marks on your dom? Doms: Do you like getting marks from your sub?

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Contributor: novanilla novanilla
Although I'm a switch, I am always submissive with my current partner. I am never one of those subs that listens though! I like to fight with my dom and leave marks. We both love seeing his marks afterward. He always has scratches on his arms from me biting and scratching and refusing to listen. I'm kind of curious as to whether this could just be a switch thing, with my dominant side coming out. Though, I know there are plenty of other bratty subs out there!

So, to my question...there are many posts about whether or not subs like marks, but what about doms? And subs, do you like giving them?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
The sub in our relationship likes giving marks; dom likes receiving them.
11
The sub in our relationship likes giving marks; dom dislikes receiving them.
2
The sub in our relationship dislikes giving marks; dom likes receiving them.
The sub in our relationship dislikes giving marks; dom dislikes receiving them.
2
Other
4
Total votes: 19 (19 voters)
Poll is closed
02/10/2013
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Contributor: nosrslylol nosrslylol
I'd prefer receiving marks, but I mostly give them!
02/10/2013
Contributor: ellieprobable ellieprobable
This is an interesting question. I don't think I've ever negotiated marks with a top but I have done some takedown scenes. I just assumed that if they consented to me resisting, they were consenting to whatever marks might happen as well.
02/10/2013
Contributor: damnbul12 damnbul12
Quote:
Originally posted by novanilla
Although I'm a switch, I am always submissive with my current partner. I am never one of those subs that listens though! I like to fight with my dom and leave marks. We both love seeing his marks afterward. He always has scratches on his arms ... more
sub likes having marks, dom likes giving.
02/10/2013
Contributor: gwenevieve gwenevieve
Quote:
Originally posted by novanilla
Although I'm a switch, I am always submissive with my current partner. I am never one of those subs that listens though! I like to fight with my dom and leave marks. We both love seeing his marks afterward. He always has scratches on his arms ... more
we both love them!
02/11/2013
Contributor: ScarletFox ScarletFox
I do like giving marks, and while my Dom does like receiving them it depends on where they are due to his job.

As for me, I love getting marks and he loves giving them to me as well. So we are pretty even on that.
02/11/2013
Contributor: Kirill1171 Kirill1171
The sub in our relationship likes giving marks; dom likes receiving them.
02/11/2013
Contributor: KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
Im usually the dom and I dont leave marks just because afterwards, I feel bad and want to kiss them to make them feel better lol
02/11/2013
Contributor: Marie Hanna Marie Hanna
Quote:
Originally posted by damnbul12
sub likes having marks, dom likes giving.
same here
02/11/2013
Contributor: RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
We both like getting marks.
02/11/2013
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
I would love leaving bites and scratches on my Dom
02/12/2013
Contributor: Mitzuki Mitzuki
I'm never leave any kind of mark on my dom, mainly because he doesn't like it. :[
02/12/2013
Contributor: Andrey2052 Andrey2052
The sub in our relationship likes giving marks; dom likes receiving them.
02/13/2013