I love a little pain. I believe that there is indeed a fine line between pleasure and pain. My guy gets too carried away sometimes and it ends up pissing me off. Do I just stop or is there another way to go about it. I have tried to talk to him about it.
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03/15/2011
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That is dangerous stuff. You NEED to talk to him about it. A caring top/dom WILL STOP when things get too heated. Do you have a safeword? This is really scary to me; I've dealt with this before. Never again will I play with a person who "doesn't believe in safewords." People like that end up in awful situations, and that's how permanent damage (psychological OR physical) can happen during a scene.
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sexyintexas
I love a little pain. I believe that there is indeed a fine line between pleasure and pain. My guy gets too carried away sometimes and it ends up pissing me off. Do I just stop or is there another way to go about it. I have tried to talk to him about
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I love a little pain. I believe that there is indeed a fine line between pleasure and pain. My guy gets too carried away sometimes and it ends up pissing me off. Do I just stop or is there another way to go about it. I have tried to talk to him about it.
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I don't know how familiar you are with BDSM, but the go-to safeword is the stoplight signal: green means 'go on' while yellow means 'slow down a second.' Red means "stop immedtiately."
Please don't let this continue; it raises a huge red flag. Be safe, please!
03/15/2011
This worries me.
If you have already talked to him about it, but he continues, it may be time to stop or find another partner.
Perhaps another discussion with him is in order.
Be safe, and think of yourself before taking things any farther.
If you have already talked to him about it, but he continues, it may be time to stop or find another partner.
Perhaps another discussion with him is in order.
Be safe, and think of yourself before taking things any farther.
03/23/2011
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