Just these last few years I have been slowly showing my freak between the sheets side to my hubby. I have been trying to to get him to try new things and some times I am a little embarrassed to mention stuff to him. i don't know why its just a feeling I get. We have been using a blind fold for a while well i have, we have gotten a paddle but once again I have been the one it has been used on...I bought some cuffs and yes they were only used on me. I know there is a freak inside my hubby i can tell just by the way he talks about stuff.

I just would like to know if there was a way that maybe I can get him to open up more, try new things, let me try things on him? has anyone else been through this?