I don't remember a time when I didn't think there was something different about me. I was always a little more vulgar, a little more open, a little more experimental than all my friends.
When did you know you were kink inclined?
03/09/2011
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I'd say I knew when I was about three years old. I was watching my brother play Mario Bros. on our old NES. I remember commenting how fun it would be to be Princess Peach.
Originally posted by
Tart
I knew that I was kinky around the age of 16, but I know of people who knew long before that, or much later is life. Color me curious, and tell me about your story into kink.
Tied up in a dungeon. By some burly, leather-clad villain. Yup.
I was also Catholic, as in Catholic schoolgirl, the whole deal.
My teen years were torture on my mom, as you can imagine.
03/10/2011
I was 17.
05/13/2011
I started liking pictures of bondage and such, and realized I liked being dominated in my late teens
05/14/2011
I voted for teenage years, because that was when I realized it, but the tendencies have been there since I was a child. For example, the earliest I remember is watching the video for U2's "Mysterious Ways" in 1991 or 1992 when I was four years old, and thinking that the woman dancing in the video was beautiful, graceful, and sensuous. Of course, it wasn't in those words, but those were my thoughts!
As a child, whenever I wore a dress with a sash, I'd always tie it as tightly as I could get it, and now, I like mild bondage, and the tight feeling of a corset.
I could go on, but really, looking back on things, it should have been obvious. +^_^+
As a child, whenever I wore a dress with a sash, I'd always tie it as tightly as I could get it, and now, I like mild bondage, and the tight feeling of a corset.
I could go on, but really, looking back on things, it should have been obvious. +^_^+
05/14/2011
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i was probably about 25
Originally posted by
Tart
I knew that I was kinky around the age of 16, but I know of people who knew long before that, or much later is life. Color me curious, and tell me about your story into kink.
05/14/2011
I was 15.
05/14/2011
I knew during adolescence... teenage years
05/15/2011
I think it was as a teen - yay fanfiction - that I really realized what I was wanting...but I remember being very young (around 5 - 7) and stealing my grandmothers Harlequin novels and getting all tingly over the ravishment scenes. Especially the ones that were non-con.
05/15/2011
Hm, when did I hit puberty again? I knew pretty much from the start that I got turned on by whips, chains, cuffs, and other things like that. I was a bit of a video game geek growing up, and I always loved playing Soul Calibur as Ivy. If you've played the game, you'll see how that one is connected.
05/23/2011
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Wow! I started doing it very young too! I was about 7-8! I never knew anyone else who did that early. I'm glad to know though, that I am not the only one. People always tell me it isn't normal to start noticing things and masturbating that young. I didn't ever see it as abnormal though. I also wasn't molested as a child. I really feel better knowing that it isn't so un-common though!
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Airen Wolf
I knew I was not interested in romance novel sex when I was a very young child. I loved porn and watching people have sex (could be why I love my current situation so very much...never really thought about it). I can remember masturbating when I was
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I knew I was not interested in romance novel sex when I was a very young child. I loved porn and watching people have sex (could be why I love my current situation so very much...never really thought about it). I can remember masturbating when I was around 5 or 6. I was never molested just was a very sexual person at an incredibly young age.
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05/23/2011
My kinks aren't very out there, but I definitely knew what I wanted and how I wanted it a few years before I became a teen. I started things really early, even before I ever knew what sex was. I didn't actually do anything sexual with another person until 13 and I was too shy & well, 13 and didn't want to have sex anyway, but I would've been to shy to ever mention the things I wanted. When I was growing up, it was all about the guy's pleasure. They acted like the girls didn't matter. We were only a hole to them. But, when I met my current partner 5 yrs ago, he showed me immediately that he cared about pleasing me. He still does & I still have a hard time speaking up, but I usually don't need to since he's good at knowing what I like. I've told him all of my kinks. He's always ready to do whatever I'm into. I love that & I've been able to actually do the things I always desired. Lol. Even though mine aren't very out there, but still.
05/23/2011
I have never been TOO much into BDSM. But recently (I'm 20 at the moment) I have noticed myself getting a little more kinky with my fiance. We usually enjoy this deep sensual slow love making, but we've started to tie each other up or hold each other down and just spank each other and whatnot. The other night I was practically begging him to leave a handmark on my thigh. We have always enjoyed temperature play with hot wax, or heated sex toys. But we've never done anything like what we've been doing lately. I don't think it's something we will be doing often, but it definitely is fun to do once in a while.
05/23/2011
I have know since I was very young, like Airen Wolf said, I too can remember masturbating at a very young age. I knew I liked things rough around 8 or 9 when I realized I liked the spankings I was getting as a supposed punishment from my step father. And it has all gone spiraling away since then, and now I am in a fantastic relationship with a guy that is very dominant in the bedroom but we are equal almost everywhere else I couldn't ask for a better situation!
05/25/2011
It wasn't so much sexual as much as I would beat up every crush I ever had because I thought making them whine and cry was cute and expected them to do the same. Maybe I was just more of a jerk than anything else though?
06/15/2011
I also knew around 7-8 yrs old. I fantasized about being taken advantage of by a tribe of Amazon women I had seen on a movie and them doing things to my backdoor. And don't remember if it gave me an erection or not but for sure something similiar. Same thing when I trued smoking a cigarrette at that age, same feeling. Also for some reason cutting jeans into really short shorts with my chedks hanging out also did it for some reason I can still remeber swinging a rope around and accidentally hitting my legs and the odd thought of why did this stinging feeling feel really good. I didn't understand any of those things I just knew I really liked them and they gave me a womderful feeling. Of course I never shared any of this until I was in my mid twenties.
06/22/2011
Not entirely sure. I think it was around my late teens. Sure, I'd had sexual thoughts and dreams for a long time before that, but nothing solid, nor particularly out there, until around 16-17.
06/23/2011
fairly young I guess, I liked pain. It was confirmed when I went through my goth period as a teen and got into some biting etc then when I met my husband and he started spanking me during sex and pulling my hair I knew I was at home lol
06/23/2011
I was about 11, my dad would sometimes record porn on the DVR and whenever he was asleep out gone, I had to watch it. That was the beginning of the realization that I was not into "normal sex". Later around age 13 I was one of those teen goth kids addicted to Tripp pants, and I watched a "goth" documentary that talked about BDSM and it really turned me on. That's when I had that full realization that I was not "normal"
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06/23/2011
I always knew that I liked sex of a different kind but I didn't accept it as being okay until I got older. I thought there was something wrong with me. I tried normal vanilla sex for some time but was never satisfied. It grew into a veracious hunger and I eventually had no choice but to explore it or become completed devoured by it.
06/25/2011
I figured it out around 12-13, but didn't get into the scene "for real" til I was 19 and had moved away from my family's home town.
06/27/2011
I figured it out when I was a younger teen, but looking back I can see that I always was.
07/08/2011
I have been obsessed with sex since I got my first sex talk. The moment I knew I was into some things that were not normal was when I realized as a teen that double penetration porn was really really hot. I had no interest in anal sex, because my brain told me that it made no sense for a woman because we don't have any "magic buttons" in there, but I knew that I really really wanted a cock in my ass if it meant that I could be with two or three guys at once. I was always into being dominated, too, but I am just now getting to experiment with that. It's hard for the guys I date, who are normally so concerned about making sure we're both equal, to boss me around in bed.
07/08/2011
I knew when I was a child (around 7) but didn't really address it until I was much older (like recently). Something was not sitting right with me whenever I saw the really vanilla/romantic stuff. As a kid, I was always obsessed with sex and the kinkier it was, the more I liked it. For years, I tried to get down with that vanilla/romantic lifestyle but I was very unhappy and unsatisfied (& bored). I thought for a long time that I wasn't normal if I didn't like the romantic, lovey dovey stuff. It wasn't until recently that I finally let go of trying to be something I'm not and I couldn't be more happier/satisfied.
07/22/2011
I knew from my teenage years.
07/22/2011
i found out my kinkier side when i started playing with toys in my teens.
07/24/2011
I don't remember ever NOT being kinky/non-vanilla in terms of my tastes and predilections. Even when I was a very young child and didn't know what it meant, I was sort of bent that way - predicaments, bondage, etc.
07/25/2011
It started out with joking about liking metal handcuffs instead of fuzzy handcuffs in high school. and then sometime i gradually realized that I liked being restrained. This mostly came about during college though.
08/31/2011
I'm a late bloomer! I just know go into it at 22! I've been curious for years. I didn't know if it was my thing until I met EF.
08/31/2011
I discovered kinkier fantasies around the age of 13 or 14, and I had started touching myself around the age of 9 or 10.
09/11/2011