I only read a few stories and what I read I liked...It made me wondering if dominant and submissive people act just that way in the bedroom or are there rules people have all the time in their daily lives or does it depend on the day or mood..It also seemed I would have to spend alot of time with my boyfriend if I wanted to explore things more we don't have hardly any time to ourselves maybe a few hours a week and we end up going to wal mart,or talking or back massages or maybe messing around on the computer or talking about other things. so It would probly end up exploring things like whip me or handcuff me,spank me and that doesn't sound like bdsm to me seems like there's alot more to it