A pegging women dominant in nature?

Contributor: Top Girl Top Girl
I love to "play" dominant, in the bedroom only. Outside of our sex life, my boyfriend and I are pretty much equals in our relationship.
09/27/2011
Contributor: PassionCpl PassionCpl
I agree that there's no 'Yes/No' answer to this. My wife is far from dominant but enjoys doing me. We just see it as another aspect of lovemaking - I don't feel like she's in control or that I'm subservient when we do it.
10/26/2011
Contributor: Big Dman Big Dman
My ex wasn't dominate at all. She only did it because she knew I liked it and she wanted to please me.
10/27/2011
Contributor: rickyroma rickyroma
Well, I'm here to tell you there is no way to know until you get her wearing a strap-on and you are laying spread eagle face down ass up nervously waiting to see what she does. I have had three different gals agree to try it. One was a shy mousy quiet type who just fucked my brains out. Some nights she would go into the bathroom to get ready for bed and just come out wearing it. Other times, she would dig it out of the drawer and tease me with it. She just plain loved making me squirm. She never asked any questions either, she just parted my cheeks and drove it home. The first time she tried shoving it in dry, then stopped and put some lube on it. She just worked her way to what she wanted, which was having it shoved deep inside me. I lost my load every time, which delighted her.

The second gal was very dominant in her personality. I expected she might try to kill me with it. But as it turned out she was way more technical and had to read a book about it, watch a video, and then she was so careful about everything I never had an orgasm. She only did it twice and then the whole thing just kind of stopped. I think it kind of grossed her out to be dealing with that part of the human body.

The third gal was a real talker, not dominant, but just a real communicator. She did not like the strap-on but preferred to use a wide variety of toys. She wears latex gloves and starts out with a finger and then gradually uses larger and larger toys. She actually sits straddling my legs, holding my legs together with her knees, which kind of makes it so she has to wedge things between my cheeks to get to my anus. She likes to make me hump and thrust to earn my orgasm though. Interestingly she likes the room to be pitch black dark, and likes to "feel" her way through it. Sometimes when I'm just about to lose it she slides a finger or two in with the toy to make me lunge forward and squirm. I married this one.

I'm far from gay. I enjoy all kinds of sex. My method of getting the gals to try it was to take them shopping at an adult toy store and just see what their reaction was to a strap-on. If they blush and bite their lip a little, just buy the damn thing. I would say 99% of females want to at least try it no matter what they say. My guess is the other 1% just don't like the idea that poop might get on them. Don't marry them, they will probably never change the babies diaper either LOL!

I say look for a gal who has a sense of adventure and who is not too overly concerned about doing things that might seem icky. If they own a few pets for example, that is probably a good sign. Just my two cents. BTW, it is a mind blowing orgasm.
12/21/2011