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Helpful topic info on Pegging:

Best P Spot Dildo for Pegging?
I love prostate stimulation and am considering trying pegging with the wife. What dildos have you found to hit the p spot the best during pegging?

Pegging - toy and harness suggestions?
my husband, and i have been experimenting with some anal stimulation over the last few months. i have been using a vibrator on him, and he has really

Vibes during pegging: yes or no?
For those of you doing the pegging, do you prefer to have a vibe for stimulation while you peg your partner? Why or why not?

What is pegging?
I was reading a review and saw this get mentioned. I have never heard of it before so was wondering what it is. Hope this is under the right category.

Which toy for pegging beginners?
My hubby and I are having a hard time finding the perfect toy for pegging! We are looking for: - The dildo itself doesn't have to be realistic but it

I can't orgasm while using a strap-on. He enjoys it quite a bit though. What I'd recommend is that you take your "dominant" role and "make" him give you oral or manual stimulation. I've also seen in queer porn where they loosen the top of the harness a little bit to slip their hand underneath the harness.

I do not cum from fucking with my strap on, but I have this feeling of accomplishment every time I fuck the shit out of my girl. She can hardly speak, with a beautiful dazed expression on her face. Her orgasm is my orgasm in a way. It's very fulfilling.

That's easy - go first! I always give my girl an orgasm or two before any activities for my self - or straight intercourse.

Foreplay is very important, having one orgasm first (or getting very close) definitely helps. Also try to get some in between the woman putting on the harness/dildo and her mounting the man, either oral or manual work.

Once that's done (or before that's done) you can help things out with good toy selection. Choose a dildo/harness combination that gets stimulation to her clit or G-spot (look at where it mounts the base of the dildo on her, investigate vibrators, etc.) Doubles (strapless dildos) can help as well.

The correct (for me) combination of harness and dil wil allow me to orgasm as the giver. I need a harness that rides low and a dil with a wide base to hit my clit while thrusting. The Aslan Jaguar and the Spare Parts harnesses work for me as do most of the VixSkin dils with wide bases.

With the feeldoe I do get mine, but with other strapon combos I didnt...

Using a dildo that has a bullet vibe, like the Vixen Creations ones can also help with having an orgasm from strapping one on.

Scott gave some great advice with the foreplay suggestion as well. My boy will give "me" a blow job while I'm wearing the harness and work some manual magic on my clit at the same time. It. Is. Awesome.

Depends on the strap on. I can with my share, for instance. And with harnesses with pockets for bullets. But the real fun for me in fucking my partner is watching her turn into a puddle of goo. It's fucking hot, and I always feel like stud.

I've not gotten to try pegging my partner. I'm kinda interested in finding out though.