Like the topic says I just got my lovely Joque and a toy that fits . I'd like some beginer pegging tips . Pretty please !
Learning to peg
10/11/2015
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10/11/2015
Best bet is to read up on it at Ruby Rider's Paradise. Her Pegging 101 is good source of info. Do you have particular questions ?
10/11/2015
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We have just started to experiment with pegging. As with all of our anal play, we just started slow with lots of lube until we found our comfort zones. Then you can start pushing onward. We also found that using a wedge or firm pillows helps to balance positions.
Originally posted by
Pinkhare
Like the topic says I just got my lovely Joque and a toy that fits . I'd like some beginer pegging tips . Pretty please !
We are both larger people so I have moved onto to a longer dildo to make sure I reach him deeply.
10/11/2015
Anal trainer kits are a stepping stone to real action.
Pace yourselves. Breath and take it very slow to start with.
Enjoy the experience.
Pace yourselves. Breath and take it very slow to start with.
Enjoy the experience.
10/12/2015
Congrats! Pegging can be a highly erotic and intimate experience.
As far as tips:
Use plenty of lube
Start slow and easy using a finger or small toy to warm up and distribute the lube.
Experiment with different angles, positions, techniques...and toys.
Communicate with your partner to find what is and isn't working.
Take your time. No need to rush. Enjoy the moment!
As far as tips:
Use plenty of lube
Start slow and easy using a finger or small toy to warm up and distribute the lube.
Experiment with different angles, positions, techniques...and toys.
Communicate with your partner to find what is and isn't working.
Take your time. No need to rush. Enjoy the moment!
10/12/2015
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Total agreement. Def made us closer and we were already so close. Our relatives always said we never fight. The first time we did it, both of us were in a state of euphoria for days and weeks.
Originally posted by
Kitt Katt
Congrats! Pegging can be a highly erotic and intimate experience.
As far as tips:
Use plenty of lube
Start slow and easy using a finger or small toy to warm up and distribute the lube.
Experiment with different angles, positions, ... more
As far as tips:
Use plenty of lube
Start slow and easy using a finger or small toy to warm up and distribute the lube.
Experiment with different angles, positions, ... more
Congrats! Pegging can be a highly erotic and intimate experience.
As far as tips:
Use plenty of lube
Start slow and easy using a finger or small toy to warm up and distribute the lube.
Experiment with different angles, positions, techniques...and toys.
Communicate with your partner to find what is and isn't working.
Take your time. No need to rush. Enjoy the moment! less
As far as tips:
Use plenty of lube
Start slow and easy using a finger or small toy to warm up and distribute the lube.
Experiment with different angles, positions, techniques...and toys.
Communicate with your partner to find what is and isn't working.
Take your time. No need to rush. Enjoy the moment! less
10/12/2015
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We find tapered toys like the Champlette are particularly useful for warming up. Also vibrating options like the Tantus B-Bomb will help.
Originally posted by
Pinkhare
Like the topic says I just got my lovely Joque and a toy that fits . I'd like some beginer pegging tips . Pretty please !
As all the others have stressed - plenty of lube. Our favorite lube is actually coconut butter - food quality with minimal intestinal distress. We also us lube-shooters to get lube deeper and more effectively than your fingers can achieve.
Early on - learn the art of the pause. Once a fairly large toy penetrates the second sphincter - a body not use to the experience will try to reject the 'intruder'. Pausing allows the receiver's body and mind to adjust to the new sensations.
Don't start to move - i.e. thrust - until your partner gives the OK - then proceed slowly.
Communicate a lot - and by all means stop at the least hint of pain. My wife was exceedingly skeptical - but by trusting me she has learned to orgasm from anal sex - just as I have learned to orgasm from being pegged. But if it doesn't feel good stop immediately.
There's an interesting phenomena if one of us goes too fast and the other experiences pain - sometimes it's not enough to just back up. The feeling of pain lingers and makes you anticipate more pain. For us the only answer was to by-pass anal sex for that session and come back to it another day - remembering not to go too fast in the future. And because we both love it so much - and want it to work, the patience just comes naturally.
Now we fight over who ass gets fucked tonight!
10/17/2015
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No need to fight. Take turns. You first and her second. I'm sure you both get your share each time.
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
We find tapered toys like the Champlette are particularly useful for warming up. Also vibrating options like the Tantus B-Bomb will help.
As all the others have stressed - plenty of lube. Our favorite lube is actually coconut butter - food ... more
As all the others have stressed - plenty of lube. Our favorite lube is actually coconut butter - food ... more
We find tapered toys like the Champlette are particularly useful for warming up. Also vibrating options like the Tantus B-Bomb will help.
As all the others have stressed - plenty of lube. Our favorite lube is actually coconut butter - food quality with minimal intestinal distress. We also us lube-shooters to get lube deeper and more effectively than your fingers can achieve.
Early on - learn the art of the pause. Once a fairly large toy penetrates the second sphincter - a body not use to the experience will try to reject the 'intruder'. Pausing allows the receiver's body and mind to adjust to the new sensations.
Don't start to move - i.e. thrust - until your partner gives the OK - then proceed slowly.
Communicate a lot - and by all means stop at the least hint of pain. My wife was exceedingly skeptical - but by trusting me she has learned to orgasm from anal sex - just as I have learned to orgasm from being pegged. But if it doesn't feel good stop immediately.
There's an interesting phenomena if one of us goes too fast and the other experiences pain - sometimes it's not enough to just back up. The feeling of pain lingers and makes you anticipate more pain. For us the only answer was to by-pass anal sex for that session and come back to it another day - remembering not to go too fast in the future. And because we both love it so much - and want it to work, the patience just comes naturally.
Now we fight over who ass gets fucked tonight! less
As all the others have stressed - plenty of lube. Our favorite lube is actually coconut butter - food quality with minimal intestinal distress. We also us lube-shooters to get lube deeper and more effectively than your fingers can achieve.
Early on - learn the art of the pause. Once a fairly large toy penetrates the second sphincter - a body not use to the experience will try to reject the 'intruder'. Pausing allows the receiver's body and mind to adjust to the new sensations.
Don't start to move - i.e. thrust - until your partner gives the OK - then proceed slowly.
Communicate a lot - and by all means stop at the least hint of pain. My wife was exceedingly skeptical - but by trusting me she has learned to orgasm from anal sex - just as I have learned to orgasm from being pegged. But if it doesn't feel good stop immediately.
There's an interesting phenomena if one of us goes too fast and the other experiences pain - sometimes it's not enough to just back up. The feeling of pain lingers and makes you anticipate more pain. For us the only answer was to by-pass anal sex for that session and come back to it another day - remembering not to go too fast in the future. And because we both love it so much - and want it to work, the patience just comes naturally.
Now we fight over who ass gets fucked tonight! less
10/19/2015
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Flip a coin. Even fairer.
Originally posted by
OH&W, Lovebears
No need to fight. Take turns. You first and her second. I'm sure you both get your share each time.
10/20/2015
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no, with us it is always me first .See, I raised my hand first.
Originally posted by
TheToyGuy
Flip a coin. Even fairer.
And a gentlemen always let a lady go first. So she gets to do it first and men second.
10/21/2015
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Who opens a door for who? Or do you slap a smiley on it?
Originally posted by
OH&W, Lovebears
no, with us it is always me first .See, I raised my hand first.
And a gentlemen always let a lady go first. So she gets to do it first and men second.
And a gentlemen always let a lady go first. So she gets to do it first and men second.
10/21/2015
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if it is going into the gym, she does. I carry either 2 bags or one big one. Anywhere else I do. The nicer I am to her the nicer she will be to me when we get home.
Originally posted by
TheToyGuy
Who opens a door for who? Or do you slap a smiley on it?
10/22/2015
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So you do slap a smiley on it then.
Originally posted by
OH&W, Lovebears
if it is going into the gym, she does. I carry either 2 bags or one big one. Anywhere else I do. The nicer I am to her the nicer she will be to me when we get home.
10/22/2015
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TG,
Originally posted by
TheToyGuy
So you do slap a smiley on it then.
on what ?
10/24/2015
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