We have several backdoor toys, but our favorite is our Bend Over Beginner Kit. We have several interchangeable dildos that we use with the harness. We have Tantus small and Medium Silk, Faerie, Compact, Smooth Operator and p spot. Our favorite is Vibrating Mistress from Vixen Creations which we also use for just backdoor play without a harness. DW also loves to use it to masturbate with. She cums so easily with this. It is so erotic to see her wearing the strap on as she talks dirty about her dick. DW jerks me off while she fucks me. Our harness has a vibrator that stimulates her clitoris while she fucks me. We usually cum together. These silicone dildos are easy to insert with lube.

Other backdoor toys that we use are Anal T, Spectragels Vibrating Anal Tool and Anal E-Z Bend. We have tried Anal Beads and don't like them.

DW always uses a vibrating anal toy to massage my prostate while she gives me a blowjob. Really intensifies my orgasms.

The most important size criteria for an anal dildo that is comfortable for me is that it should not be more than 1 1/4 inch diameter. 6 to 7 inch length is great. Many strap on dildos are 1 1/2 inch diameter. That is not comfortable for me. Silicone dildos are the easiest to insert. Remember use lots and lots of lube.