The New Intimacy

Would you consider using a strap on and your real dick to hit both holes at once?

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Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
Does this sound hot to anyone?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Yes
Pi , Coralbell , Bignuf , Taylor , Katelyn , RonLee , Moein , oneeyedoctopus , Ghost , Wild Orchid , arduous , tpfks , Spilock , Sir , married with children , TheHardOne , Siekarr , Fluke , sasweetheart89 , toxie m , ToyingCouple , Kindred , Amelia Stone , Peg , angel142stx , (k)InkyIvy , meitman , NM47 , Jake'n'bake , jeangel246 , fredacarl
31  (79%)
No
PeaceToTheMiddleEast , EdenJP , SMichelle , dhig , Ms. Spice , mizzmilla , Teacookie , SecretToyMan
8  (21%)
Total votes: 39
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02/12/2012
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02/12/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by spineyogurt
Does this sound hot to anyone?
Umm....at least a couple times a month. One of our standard "play" activities...only the dildo in the strap on may change. Actually it is usually him in my tushy and the dildo in my vagina. He enjoys the extra tightness of filling both my holes and I always GUSH when we play this way.
02/12/2012
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
I'm female, but I'm interested in being on the recieving end. I've talked to my boyfriend about it but he's a bit iffy on wearing a harness, so I'm not sure if it will end up happening.
02/12/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Coralbell
I'm female, but I'm interested in being on the recieving end. I've talked to my boyfriend about it but he's a bit iffy on wearing a harness, so I'm not sure if it will end up happening.
My hubby had more of a hard time finding a harness that he found comfortable for this, then I had finding one to do pegging on him, once in a while. However, he now has a couple harnesses and about five different dildo's that are the perfect size, shape, length and firmness to do my vagina, while he is enjoying my tail end. It takes a bit of shopping around, but WHY is your boyfriend "iffy"? Good golly, it is FUN for us BOTH. My hubby loves the EXTRA tightness he feels when he has that extra toy in the "other" hole. If it VIBRATES, so much the better.
02/12/2012
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
My hubby had more of a hard time finding a harness that he found comfortable for this, then I had finding one to do pegging on him, once in a while. However, he now has a couple harnesses and about five different dildo's that are the perfect ... more
He is worried that it will be uncomfortable to wear or awkward to thrust with. And I don't really want to spend money on a harness in case he tries it once, decides he hates it, and never uses it again. Which I could definitely see him doing.
02/12/2012
Contributor: EdenJP EdenJP
Quote:
Originally posted by spineyogurt
Does this sound hot to anyone?
Not for me...
02/12/2012
Contributor: jc123 jc123
Funny... I was just going to ask if anybody had tips on how to do this--my husband told me today he wants to try it soon with our new harness.
02/12/2012
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I'd so love a partner to wear that type of harness. Would be awesome.
02/13/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
My Man and I often perform double penetration, but he never uses a strap on, we just use a dil or a phallic vibe in one place and him in the other.

I never penetrate him, so we don't have any strap on harnesses.
02/13/2012
Contributor: arduous arduous
Anyone have any tips on doing this without it being clumsy? I don't know if we just didn't have the harness tight enough or what, but we ended up with some slippage and sideways action that wasn't really comfy.
02/13/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by arduous
Anyone have any tips on doing this without it being clumsy? I don't know if we just didn't have the harness tight enough or what, but we ended up with some slippage and sideways action that wasn't really comfy.
A few things to consider:

First, are you wearing the harness/dildo "above" your penis or below it? Above is usually better, as the base of the dildo can rest against your pubic bone.

Second, make sure that the O-ring is close to the size of the dildo's shaft. If your harness has an interchangeable ring you can find replacements at the hardware store sometimes or order them.

Third, play around with strap settings. On a jock the wider the butt straps are the more secure the harness tends to be.
02/13/2012
Contributor: dhig dhig
too complicated for me
02/13/2012
Contributor: Sir Sir
Doable, though I'd prefer using a toy or my fingers manually with penetrative intercourse.
02/13/2012
Contributor: married with children married with children
if that was what she wanted then yes.
02/13/2012
Contributor: TheHardOne TheHardOne
I've tryed it, but real is better.
02/13/2012
Contributor: Siekarr Siekarr
Never thought about it, but it does sound fun now that you mention it.
02/13/2012
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
No, I don't like the feeling of double penetration. I'm happy with just one penis.
02/13/2012
Contributor: mizzmilla mizzmilla
I feel like one would be enough for me.
02/14/2012
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
My boyfriend and I definitely plan to play like this someday
02/14/2012
Contributor: Amelia Stone Amelia Stone
William brought this one up to me I have to say I REALLY like the idea.
02/14/2012
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Umm....at least a couple times a month. One of our standard "play" activities...only the dildo in the strap on may change. Actually it is usually him in my tushy and the dildo in my vagina. He enjoys the extra tightness of filling both my ... more
same here. him in my ass, toy in my pussy. i love DP like that.
02/15/2012
Contributor: Teacookie Teacookie
owie
02/15/2012
Contributor: InnocentISwear InnocentISwear
We've tried it. Not with a harness, but with him and a toy. It's been fun, but I think it's one of those things that will be more fun the more we do it.
I actually logged on tonight specifically to look for a toy for this!
02/16/2012
Contributor: SecretToyMan SecretToyMan
To me, wearing a strap on is weird. Idk if I would ever do it. But it would be nice to fuck my wife in both holes at once!
02/16/2012
Contributor: fredacarl fredacarl
Quote:
Originally posted by spineyogurt
Does this sound hot to anyone?
Yes
02/20/2012