I read reviews. Lots of reviews. One person has a problem with the size/design/hardware/d urability/comfort of a cuff while another loves them just the way they are.

I have a comfortable but very un-sexy pair of sportcuffs we use on my wrists...I don't want any marks there(!) and they do the job even though there's nothing sexy about them. They work as well on my ankles but again very un-sexy looking. I want sexy, comfortable, feminine, sturdy cuffs that aren't going to scare my man AND won't fail at the wrong time.

I like wearing ankle cuffs in public when I'm wearing long pants. I know they're there and my man knows they're there but nobody else does. It's a kind of dangerous, naughty sexy feeling that I love. Occasionally someone else might notice them and I just wink and smile. I've even worn them in the boxing ring (I'm a referee).

Okay, I've taken the long way around to the actual question; where can I find what I want and need? Is anyone else having the same trouble as I am?

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If your wrists are smaller, I actually have a recommendation for you. The boyfriend and I own tons of cuffs, and this is the set he always comes back to everytime I tell him to get some cuffs.linkThey're strong, they're soft, and they're comfortable to wear. Aslan Leather stuff is amazing as well. These just have a cheaper price tag and they're soft enough that we love them for all types of play - even rough play. Lemme know if you have any other questions. less