If you're looking for a product, you could try the Vanilla Bondage Kit here: link. It's inexpensive, cute, and non-intimidating.

Have you talked with your partner about this? It may be easier to figure out where to start if you discuss this with your partner. Is he comfortable with this idea? Communication is super important, especially in BDSM.

I only own one book about BDSM, and it's pretty in-depth, but I'd suggest first to talk with your partner, and get a non-intimidating product to start with like the one I linked to above. Or, if you wanted to try it sooner, you could use things you have at home like a silky scarf for wrist restraint or a blind fold.

I'm not sure if that helps because your question was sort of vague, but I'm sure others on here could give you more great advice, and if you wanted to, you could always send me a message and we could talk through there Good luck my dear!