My husband and I have decided that we want to give mild bondage a try. That being said, neither of us has any experience with bondage at all outside of our japaense silk love rope.

I have been doing a lot of research on my own, and am trying to decide what products are best for us. I've decided that I'm going to buy this rope, and this breathable ball gag, but outside of those two items I'm not sure if there's anything we really should be picking up. I also am really unsure as to where exactly to start. Do you just..tie one of us up and give it a go?

I'm sorry for sounding so vanilla, but we both sort of are, and are trying to do some exploring since the idea of bondage does -sound- fun, but we have no idea where to start! Any help would be greatly appreciated.

As an edit, I looked through the previous questions but all of them seemed to be a comparison for which kit is best, and I don't think any of the kits are quality.