Total beginner, dont know how to BDSM >.<

Contributor: xylia xylia
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so me n my husband are both not really the role play type. well, more him im all for it. now we want to try. does anybody have any tips as to how to use this and what to do? id really appreciate it
07/28/2011
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Contributor: Ghost Ghost
What to do: have fun.

Basically, you just put the cuffs/collar/mask on. You can make it about power exchange (one partner collaring another), or just for fun (cuffing your partner up so they can't get away from your advances!).
07/29/2011
Contributor: jakhammer jakhammer
make him lick your shoes
09/23/2011
Contributor: Dawn (Lilac Distraction) Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
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Originally posted by xylia
so me n my husband are both not really the role play type. well, more him im all for it. now we want to try. does anybody have any tips as to how to use this and what to do? id really appreciate it
You should check out the Bondage 101 game on here! It's a great intro to bondage that's non-intimidating. The best way to get into bondage is to communicate with your partner. Ask them what they're comfortable with, and such. Then, just go with the flow.
09/23/2011