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Reviewers Spotlight - Destri

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Contributor: Ansley Ansley


Hello there, and welcome to our fourth month long Reviewers Spotlight! How this is going to work is that you have all month long to ask our wonderful reviewers questions. They'll answer when they can, and you can keep asking until the end of the month!

This month's spotlight features Destri. She recently celebrated her 5 year anniversary as a member of Edenfantasys in March and we're so glad to have her with us. Let's find out more about her, shall we?

Destri's biography:


Hi, I'm Destri. I have been doing reviews on Eden Fantasys since 2007! Back then there were very few reviewers and not that many toys to choose from! I have really enjoyed watching the site grow into what it is today, and still feel that EF is the best sex toy site on the Internet!

I am married to the love of my life, we are headed into our 10th year together. I have two grown sons and two grandsons. Over the years I have worn many hats, including owning a gift shop, having a website design business, doing life coaching and women's empowerment classes and ghostwriting articles for various websites. I really love writing, and that is where my focus lies these days.
07/05/2012
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Contributor: honeybee57 honeybee57
wow 10 yrs together eh, Congrats. I was wondering if you could tell me which is your favorite rabbit style vibe? Also your fav. style bullet. Thanks from the semi-newbie
07/05/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
How has the site growth impacted your reviewing and participation?

What are some of the best changes due to its growth?

What do you miss about when the site was smaller?
07/06/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Ansley


Hello there, and welcome to our fourth month long Reviewers Spotlight! How this is going to work is that you have all month long to ask our wonderful reviewers questions. They'll answer when they can, and you can keep asking until the end ... more
When Kermit was done having his way with Miss Piggy what did they have for dinner? Was it romantic?

How are YOU doing?
07/06/2012
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
I remember destri from when I first joined. It's nice to see someone who's still around
07/07/2012
Contributor: Destri Destri
Quote:
Originally posted by honeybee57
wow 10 yrs together eh, Congrats. I was wondering if you could tell me which is your favorite rabbit style vibe? Also your fav. style bullet. Thanks from the semi-newbie
Thanks! To be honest, I am not a fan of either rabbits or bullets! Sounds crazy, I know, but that is just me. So sorry, no faves!
07/07/2012
Contributor: Destri Destri
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Originally posted by js250
How has the site growth impacted your reviewing and participation?

What are some of the best changes due to its growth?

What do you miss about when the site was smaller?
The growth of EF has impacted my reviewing because it has gotten harder to find free assignments to review. And that is what I miss about the site when it was smaller as well. In the old days, there were very few reviewers and it was easy to find awesome toys to review. Now, I sometimes go as long as 2 months between reviews because I can't find anything to get.

Having said that, the best part of the growth is the forum! I love all the clubs (especially the lit club, shout out to Airen!) and the interesting threads that are constantly popping up. So many interesting people discussing interesting things.
07/07/2012
Contributor: Destri Destri
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
When Kermit was done having his way with Miss Piggy what did they have for dinner? Was it romantic?

How are YOU doing?
Oh yes, they had a romantic, candle lit dinner! Kermit had gourmet flies and Miss P had French slop...

I am doing fairly well, thanks for asking. I have pretty much recuperated from the heart attack, but things are a but stressful around here.
07/07/2012
Contributor: Destri Destri
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Originally posted by Adriana Ravenlust
I remember destri from when I first joined. It's nice to see someone who's still around
Thanks! I am somewhat of an old fixture around here for sure...
07/07/2012
Contributor: Sangsara Sangsara
glad to meet you- i hadn't come across your name yet. please tell me do you think its a better idea to learn from eden , then grow your wings and fly off to your own blog, or become a fixture around here and get more involved? (one only has so much time)
07/08/2012
Contributor: Destri Destri
Quote:
Originally posted by Sangsara
glad to meet you- i hadn't come across your name yet. please tell me do you think its a better idea to learn from eden , then grow your wings and fly off to your own blog, or become a fixture around here and get more involved? (one only has so ... more
Nice to meet you too, Sangsara! It really is a matter of personal opinion as to whether one should start their own blog or stay here. I have toyed with the idea of starting a blog for some time now, but as you say, we only have so much time, so I end up staying here.

The advantage to having your own blog is that you can touch people that are not here on EF or who maybe have never even heard of this site. That is what lures me to the idea. But here, you know you are interacting with like-minded people. So I guess I just don't know...
07/08/2012
Contributor: AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
You mentioned how much you've enjoyed the growth of the forums and clubs, what are your favorite clubs to participate in?
07/08/2012
Contributor: Destri Destri
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Originally posted by AHubbyof2SexualMinds
You mentioned how much you've enjoyed the growth of the forums and clubs, what are your favorite clubs to participate in?
I have been a 'member' of the porn club for a couple of years now, and about 6 months ago or so, I joined the Eden Lit Club, which I just love! Airen always makes that so enjoyable and so educational, it is just a joy.

Other than that, I just sort of drop in on other clubs to see what is new.
07/08/2012
Contributor: LLmama LLmama
So you're not a fan of bullets or rabbits, how about favorite g-spot vibe.

What was your favorite toy back when Eden was so small in 2007?

btw- I'm loving reading your reviews!
07/09/2012
Contributor: HotMama2three HotMama2three
Wow! 5 years at EF...I wonder how many toys have been through your treasure chest?
07/09/2012
Contributor: Frun Frun
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Originally posted by Ansley


Hello there, and welcome to our fourth month long Reviewers Spotlight! How this is going to work is that you have all month long to ask our wonderful reviewers questions. They'll answer when they can, and you can keep asking until the end ... more
congrats!!
07/10/2012
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Congrats on 10 years of marriage! My wife and I just celebrated our 10th year of marriage.

So that leads me to two questions. What would you say are some of the keys to your marriage and how long were you together before tying the knot?
07/10/2012
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
I don't know why, but this question just popped into my mind...

Think of all of the "fast" foods you like from restaurants to drive-thrus. If you could put them all under one roof, which dishes would you take from each to form your own buffet?
07/10/2012
Contributor: Destri Destri
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Originally posted by LLmama
So you're not a fan of bullets or rabbits, how about favorite g-spot vibe.

What was your favorite toy back when Eden was so small in 2007?

btw- I'm loving reading your reviews!
This is my current favorite toy: link I hope this one works!

Back in the day, this was my favorite: link but they don't carry it anymore. Broke my heart when it finally died.

And thanks about the reviews!
07/10/2012
Contributor: Destri Destri
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Originally posted by HotMama2three
Wow! 5 years at EF...I wonder how many toys have been through your treasure chest?
I have had about 85 toys that I have either reviewed here or just gotten. I don't have them all now, but I still have most of them!
07/10/2012
Contributor: Destri Destri
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
Congrats on 10 years of marriage! My wife and I just celebrated our 10th year of marriage.

So that leads me to two questions. What would you say are some of the keys to your marriage and how long were you together before tying the knot?
Congrats to you on 10 years! And interesting questions...

Keys would be communication first and foremost. We can, and do talk about anything and everything. Next would be patience. No one is always going to be easy to live with 100% of the time, and we try to concentrate on not flying off the handle or getting mad at one another. We rarely ever fight. If we do, then we settle it as soon as possible. We never go to bed mad.

Actually, we only knew each other about 4 months before we moved in together. We had a very short but very intense relationship on the Internet. We just decided we couldn't live without one another quickly and he moved to be with me. And 10 years later, it is still wonderful every day.
07/10/2012
Contributor: Destri Destri
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
I don't know why, but this question just popped into my mind...

Think of all of the "fast" foods you like from restaurants to drive-thrus. If you could put them all under one roof, which dishes would you take from each to form your own buffet?
Wow, Stormy, you do ask the most interesting questions!

I love ultimate cheeseburgers from Jack in the Box, Blu cheese burgers from Village Inn and apple pancakes from Ihop. We don't eat fast food much, so this is about it. But, if I could get all of those in one place, I would move in!
07/10/2012
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
The grease monkey in me always wants to know, what is your dream car/truck/motorcycle? Providing you have the money and all. What color would it be and what would the license plate read?
07/17/2012
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Quote:
Originally posted by Destri
Wow, Stormy, you do ask the most interesting questions!

I love ultimate cheeseburgers from Jack in the Box, Blu cheese burgers from Village Inn and apple pancakes from Ihop. We don't eat fast food much, so this is about it. But, if I ... more
Oh I know, I'm like if I could have the fries from Checkers, the burgers from White Castle...my list is fairly long.

So, what's goin on for ya when summer ends?
07/17/2012
Contributor: Destri Destri
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
The grease monkey in me always wants to know, what is your dream car/truck/motorcycle? Providing you have the money and all. What color would it be and what would the license plate read?
Tim I am torn between a classic Rolls Royce Silver Ghost from the 1920's, black of course, and a Chevy Volt! Odd combination, I know. I want a
Chevy Volt sooo badly! It would be copper. As for the vanity plates, Mouse 1 would do.
07/17/2012
Contributor: Destri Destri
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Originally posted by Ansley
Oh I know, I'm like if I could have the fries from Checkers, the burgers from White Castle...my list is fairly long.

So, what's goin on for ya when summer ends?
Actually, we are going to be moving in a couple of weeks, and those are the only big plans we have. Summer is brutal around here, so when summer ends, we just sit outside and appreciate the cooler weather.
07/17/2012
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Quote:
Originally posted by Destri
Tim I am torn between a classic Rolls Royce Silver Ghost from the 1920's, black of course, and a Chevy Volt! Odd combination, I know. I want a
Chevy Volt sooo badly! It would be copper. As for the vanity plates, Mouse 1 would do.
Ah, the Silver Ghost! What a fine automobile, classic lines and a big motor too! I like the styling of the Volt too.
07/18/2012
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Quote:
Originally posted by Destri
Actually, we are going to be moving in a couple of weeks, and those are the only big plans we have. Summer is brutal around here, so when summer ends, we just sit outside and appreciate the cooler weather.
Nice!

Summers are pretty brutal everywhere these days. I feel so bad for people who don't have central air right now.

When you were going through school what were your favorite and least favorite subjects?
07/18/2012
Contributor: my name my name
5 years!!! WOW long time =)
07/18/2012