If you're talking about that discussion that was in a poll earlier, I completely agree. I did get the second message in regards to that issue, and once I saw it was a misunderstanding, I was happy to be friendly and even offer advice and extend a hand in friendship.

I even noted in my reply message that I remembered how confusing it was to keep track of all of the rules. I think the expectations of conduct are a must-read for all users, but the problem is, even I didn't discover them until I'd been posting and playing around on the site for a while.

I think we all get frustrated from time to time when we are more seasoned members and something comes out of the blue like that, and to US it seems like one of those things where "well they should've just KNOWN better" when in reality, not all websites are run the way Eden is, and in some places things are fine and they may not be as accepted here, but in other places they are.

The same user also mentioned that they didn't know that rating on the reviews should be for the review itself and NOT the item, so I'm thinking of posting a suggestion thread which was already brought up by another user on here, that when you go to vote on a review for the first few times you should get an alert that you are voting for the REVIEW and NOT the product, because that confusion seems to be causing a lot of hurt feelings and anger. A lot of people assume it is also point farming, and that causes hard feelings.

I agree, we should all work more on understanding the REASON behind things like that rather than be mean to another user, however, I agree with what myself and a few others did in reporting it to an admin, simply because I'm sure if we'd tried to deal with it on our own, more hurt feelings would've been had, because the user and other users in similar situations of course, might've felt ganged up on! less