I actually found the joys of Edenfantasys by watching Tuesdays with Nina with Nina Hartley. Each week she talks about a different aspect of sexuality and relationships. Everything from sex toys, to difficult orgasm to disabled spouses or lovers to being honest with a newly married man and his sexless marriage and what he can do to remedy it.
If you don't know Nina Hartley is a Porn Star, who started making loops in the 70s (I believe) has made hundreds of scenes and movies and has worked for years in the Sex Industry. She is an intelligent woman and her videos are well thought out, but very spontaneous.
I feel an affinity for Nina, as she and I have similar sexual responses (High Orgasmic Thresholds, paired with very high sex drives) and it was she who made me feel OK with having to use a vibrator to orgasm, after years of hair trigger orgasm. Not that I don't once in a while miss my previous ability, but I am glad I found the strength (and My Man had the idea) to start using toys to bring our sex life back to life, and now it's better than ever. And Nina let me feel great about the need to use sex toys in order to get some of what I need, without "displacing" My Man or going frustrated. I get what I need, and she helped me feel good about needing a toy, even if it's sometimes only for a few minutes (other times a lot longer, depending on what we are going for.)
Anyway, here's where to find her videos. Nina is fantastic, and I think you'll like her. She tends to ramble (something she and I also share)but is so entertaining and you feel like she talking to you. And although she's a little older than I am, and I have never made a pornographic movies, I feel a kinship with her.
Tuesdays with Nina Sex Advice Video Blog
Nina takes questions and I believe Victoria sends them on to her. Check her out. She is really enlightening to watch, and you may actually learn something or realize that what you are doing or feeling is quite normal.
If you don't know Nina Hartley is a Porn Star, who started making loops in the 70s (I believe) has made hundreds of scenes and movies and has worked for years in the Sex Industry. She is an intelligent woman and her videos are well thought out, but very spontaneous.
I feel an affinity for Nina, as she and I have similar sexual responses (High Orgasmic Thresholds, paired with very high sex drives) and it was she who made me feel OK with having to use a vibrator to orgasm, after years of hair trigger orgasm. Not that I don't once in a while miss my previous ability, but I am glad I found the strength (and My Man had the idea) to start using toys to bring our sex life back to life, and now it's better than ever. And Nina let me feel great about the need to use sex toys in order to get some of what I need, without "displacing" My Man or going frustrated. I get what I need, and she helped me feel good about needing a toy, even if it's sometimes only for a few minutes (other times a lot longer, depending on what we are going for.)
Anyway, here's where to find her videos. Nina is fantastic, and I think you'll like her. She tends to ramble (something she and I also share)but is so entertaining and you feel like she talking to you. And although she's a little older than I am, and I have never made a pornographic movies, I feel a kinship with her.
Tuesdays with Nina Sex Advice Video Blog
Nina takes questions and I believe Victoria sends them on to her. Check her out. She is really enlightening to watch, and you may actually learn something or realize that what you are doing or feeling is quite normal.
