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Ever Gone From "NO" to "YES" on anal and how did that turn out?

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Every had a lover who just did not want anal, yet, as we read in these postings, and read in other places, was "begged and begged" into finally trying it and agreed?

Regardless if you were the one who finally said OKAY, or it was you doing the begging and a partner said "OKAY", and tried it....how did that turn out for you?

We enjoy anal and always have. Neither of us ever said "NO" to trying, but apparently MANY folks do. We were wondering how many just finally say "YES" and do you or can you, go from really not liking the idea, to being in a real "fan" (or do they end up just "tolerating" or even "hating" it?
07/19/2011
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Contributor: alphajerk alphajerk
i cant imagine being BEGGED for anal... just have to ask me once! my wife hasnt been into it but we have a few times [obviously i was on the begging side], before that i initiated her into giving me anal play. that freaked her out for a bit. once she got over the thought that i wasnt gay by asking she loves to give it. even ordered a harness.

oddly, she "lets me" use my fingers when she is on top. she says she "lets me" because she knows i enjoy it but i swear she isnt complaining and it even makes her cum harder. i would love for her to want to receive it, one can dream i guess. she does let me on special occasions.
08/02/2011
Contributor: mama2007 mama2007
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Originally posted by alphajerk
i cant imagine being BEGGED for anal... just have to ask me once! my wife hasnt been into it but we have a few times [obviously i was on the begging side], before that i initiated her into giving me anal play. that freaked her out for a bit. once she ... more
i hate anal but ill occassionally let hubby do so for a little bit if he goes slow and holds me. it hurts so no i wouldnt give in to begging thankfully hes not like that
08/10/2011
Contributor: Linga Linga
Always been YES a big BIG yes hehe
08/10/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
My husband never begged. He wanted to do it long before I did. We played a little, but I wasn't ready for it at first. I was young the first time he suggested it and I was like, "You want to put it where?" Eventually, we found our way into it, when I realized I was fantasizing about it and having sex with a man who wanted it.

We took our time, it took about a month of training and conditioning from the time I decided I wanted it, until we could achieve full anal sex. I didn't even like toys until after we had had full anal sex.

But, he NEVER begged. He took his time was patient, and waited for me to come around.

Why I waited so long (years) to actually decide I wanted to try it, I don't understand. We missed out on a wonderful thing for many years. But, we have it now, and we're both thankful we both love it so much.
08/10/2011
Contributor: JessCee JessCee
It was a HUGE no for me until I gave in and tried it!
08/10/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
Anal has been a hard limit for me for a while due to a bad experience with an ex. In my current relationship, my Master is gentling me into enjoying anal. Right now, while I definitely won't beg for it, I dislike it a lot less, and it's each experience has hurt/sucked a bit less and felt a bit more pleasurable.
08/10/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
I love anal but my body has decided that it doesn't lately. It's strange. I just can't relax the way I used to. My man's always been a bit big for me, but these days it's like he's wayyy too big. We're still trying, though.
08/10/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
have been begged, gave in and was glad I did.
08/10/2011