The New Intimacy

Anal fans, do you always warm up (or warm up your partner) with a finger or toy, before a penis is put in?

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
or....am I strange that sometimes I want him to go straight to putting his penis in me? It may take a few extra seconds to "stretch out", but not much more then had he started by fingering me or using a toy in me. Only when I have been wearing a plug for an hour or so, can he pull it out and then "slowly plunge" into me in one smooth movement, without any pain and with incredible pleasure for me!!!!

Anyone else just go right for a nice, hard penis back there (without other toys or fingers first)?

(No negative comments about lube. Of course we use LOTS of lube there first...but he may just apply it to his penis and my tush, during penetration).
06/16/2013
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
We are relatively new to anal sex - and preparation is always necessary for my wife to do it comfortably. I use a finger - then the B-Bomb butt plug to get her ready. It's apparent that as time goes on, less time and preparation are necessary.

She pegs me occasionally - and I always need preparation. She progresses from 1 finger to 2, then she'll use the Champlette to get me ready for a dildo like the O2 Revolution or Vixskin Johnny.
06/16/2013
Contributor: pootpootpoot pootpootpoot
We almost never start with fingers (unless that's all we'll be using) and most of our anal toys are around the same size, so there's not really any warm-up.
06/16/2013
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
It really depends on head space for me. Sometimes lots of warmup is necessary and sometime none really is. It's so variable.
06/16/2013
Contributor: No-nita No-nita
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Originally posted by Bignuf
or....am I strange that sometimes I want him to go straight to putting his penis in me? It may take a few extra seconds to "stretch out", but not much more then had he started by fingering me or using a toy in me. Only when I have been ... more
I almost always need a warm-up before anything penis-sized goes back there. It's difficult because you can't always "schedule" anal and remember to put a plug in as preparation, haha. I think it feels better and is safer to have worn a plug beforehand though for sure.
06/17/2013
Contributor: CE CE
We have quite a bit of anal sex and most times something goes up her butt before my penis. Its usually my finger, and many times my tongue goes in first before my finger. It all depends on how the sex session plays out - most times we have a lot of foreplay... but sometimes we just want to get right to it.
06/18/2013
Contributor: Yellow Dog Yellow Dog
We always need a warmup; but experience makes the warmup go faster. Whereas at the beginning of our experiences our warmups took half an hour or so, now they only take minutes.

Relaxation. Communication. Imagination. Lubrication.

Enjoy.
06/19/2013
Contributor: Ganconagh Ganconagh
We almost always do warm up, unless we are play "rough."
06/20/2013
Contributor: Cosmonaut Cosmonaut
Usually we play with a toy first =)
06/20/2013
Contributor: Nezzie13 Nezzie13
It depends on what we've been doing. Usually anal is planned, so I tidy my bum, pop in my butt plug, and wear it for an hour or two until we're ready. Sometimes though, we're making love and switch positions and he slides into my butt by mistake. We've never figured out how the heck that works, but the way I get drippy when he gets going probably has a lot to do with it!
06/20/2013