My partner completely dislikes fingers and toys. Dick only. I don't know why. Me... I'm game for anything. I do admit though, fingers/toys/dick each have different connotations and emotions for me. Fingers are loving and sensual and feel more like my partner is working just to make me feel good. Toys are all about the unique sensation of poking, prodding, and stretching all of the fun regions of anal. Dick is more about the relationship between me and my parter... power, love, aggression, submission, play etc. I suppose I could see someone not being into one or the other. But thankfully not me!