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HoneyyBunne
I've only tried it twice and never got past the tip because it hurt so much.. Then again, I never had proper prepping or aftercare. I want to please my partner, but I also want to enjoy it. I like it when I have a buttplug in, so maybe if I had
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I've only tried it twice and never got past the tip because it hurt so much.. Then again, I never had proper prepping or aftercare. I want to please my partner, but I also want to enjoy it. I like it when I have a buttplug in, so maybe if I had proper prepping, I would end up trying it again. Any tips?
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Proper prepping is VERY essential for analto feel good and become something possibly enjoyable.
Lots of Lube is the FIRST and foremost thing (next to of course being in the mood).
You could start out with one finger (or a beginner friendly toy just for anal play).
Seeing as you said a buttplug is enjoyable, you could also try an anal training kit. These consist of levels starting from small to increasing in size. These help you get used to bigger sized penetration while not going too big so quickly.
When you start, start slow with lots of lube. Go in slowly and always ALWAYS allow your body to get used to the sensation. It's not a race and you don't even have to go full penetration if it starts to feel uncomfortable. Eventually, if you like it, you'll be able to handle bigger toys or more fingers (before going full dick).
So simply...
1. Use lots of lube
2. Go slow
3. Allow your body to adjust
4. Continue insertion if it's pleasurable OR stop if it is uncomfortable.
That's the basic tips! Hope you have fun exploring and find many things that bring you pleasure!